Interesting people are the ones you find looking for memories in your chest, offer you knowledge, experience and good sensations, interesting people, unlike those interested, do not ask, offer.
They offer quality moments, they don’t require minutes on your watch or days on your calendar, they’re not useless in life, because they’re useless, they don’t seek your maximum attention, they capture it. They do not look with bad eyes at their relationships with others, but are happy that others offer them happiness.
- Therefore.
- The main difference is seen from afar.
- Because it is not who says that he loves you.
- It is the one who proves it.
- It is he who in his bad moments simply conjugates the verb BE.
- Who at a glance becomes complicit in his well-being and discomfort.
The people who don’t care are the ones who don’t leave you empty and don’t judge your behavior, they are the ones who don’t let themselves be devoured by jealousy and carry their failures for the basis of forgetfulness and forgiveness.
The mere fact that connecting with someone makes you a better person is a clear indication that that person must be in your life. Connecting intensely and knowing that we are loved is a powerful balm of life.
Interested parties cancel out when the wind does not blow in the desired direction, disconnect feelings and break the link with bad deeds, with a rapid disinterest that leaves our taste buds focused on a bitter taste.
Bitter flavors that need to be replaced. In any case, it is about superimposing sensations, drowning anxieties, living grief, leaving aside the expectations of our minds to assume reality.
There are people who fail with us and people with which we fail, it is inevitable in the evolution of life. We must assume that relationships and what we expect from them are, by definition, variable.
So, to overcome a disappointment the first thing to do is to work on our expectations and allow relationships to develop accordingly, when we stop putting these kinds of obstacles, we will notice that everything becomes much simpler, that we can say goodbye to needs and that we will have taken stones out of our backpack.
The ultimate goal is to adapt our expectations in ourselves, not others, because in addition to being often unfair, this leads to disappointment, which tends to produce some mistrust and therefore undesirable emotional states and unhealthy attitudes.
We are so sick sure that we cannot tolerate uncertainty in our relationships, so the only way that can prevent us from feeling abandoned or disappointed is to work on our most intimate fears and emotional aspects, so as not to depend on others. to be happy.
Just because someone isn’t behind you every second or doesn’t act on the level of detail you would have had doesn’t mean that person doesn’t like you, it just means you’re different people.
But if someone never takes care of you, it is no longer a matter of expectations, but of disrespect and interest, fortunate or unfortunately, this can only be learned through experience.
The best way to protect ourselves and heal bad experiences is to get rid of our expectations and the images we form, not everyone is good and no one is perfect, so our reaction will depend on the value we attribute to each influencer.