A couple had just bought an apartment in a quiet neighborhood one morning, while drinking coffee, the woman saw through the window that the neighbor was hanging sheets on the clothesline and said, “What dirty sheets these neighbors hang on the clothesline!Maybe you need a better soap? The husband looked, but remained silent. Every other day, the woman repeated the same speech as the neighbor hung her clothes in the sun. One day, the woman was surprised to see that the neighbor hung clean sheets and said to her husband:?Look, he finally learned to do the laundry! And the husband said:Hmm? It’s not like that. I got up earlier today and cleaned the windows of our window. Unknown author
Judging the actions and lives of others is a way of expressing the discontent that permeates our lives. Continually judging others only fuels the destructive critique of others and leads us to believe, erroneously, that only our point of view is correct. those who judge the lives of others hide the need for change that they themselves may need.
- We waste our incredible energy paying attention to the lives of others.
- Censoring the behavior of others only from our point of view and by virtue of what we believe to be right And.
- Of course.
- We think we are different and better than others.
- Criticize.
- It is common.
- Mainly.
- To judge those who have different lives than our own.
We judge according to our prejudices, without respecting or understanding the behavior of others. We judge out of envy, without even trying to satisfy our own desires, only judging incorrectly. Wasting time judging others will not increase our happiness.
Our relationships will not arouse affection or sympathy and, the only alternative we have to avoid falling into vague judgments of value, is to respect individuality and be honest with others, we are in an eternal process of change and we will never know how many variations we will experience in life over the years. If we are sincere, we will freely express what we think, without expressing criticism or prejudice. Before you judge others, look at yourself.