Why do we love men who suck? This is the question that many women ask themselves, especially when they have partner problems because they have chosen someone who was not worth it. Although I knew it was unlikely to work, the appeal was greater than the reason.
The prediction that we love bad men is made more in adolescence, just look at schools, the boys who do best and who benefit most from them are usually leaders, with traits of selfishness and narcissism.
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- He led a group of scientists to conduct the study with 200 students.
- And the results confirmed that the best performers with the girls were the most outgoing.
- Unstable.
- With narcissistic and even a little unpleasant touches.
David Schmitt of Bradley University conducted a second survey of 35,000 people from 57 countries, with the same result: men classified as the most attractive were the least successful, the ones with the most personality flaws.
Psychologist Gayle Brewer of the University of Lancashire also contributed her knowledge to this research. Bad attract women with unstable and passionate relationships, but this success was short-term. In the end, for lasting and stable relationships, women without psychological problems ended up choosing the “right ones. “
From a psychological point of view, we can explain why we love bad men. The woman’s unconscious instinct seeks to protect itself; therefore, look for strong, selfish, adventurous men, confident, with a gift for leadership, even a little unpleasant.
Do you, bad men, have all the evidence so that a woman’s instinct sees that she is a great protector and that she knows how to defend he he he or she is against life. The desire to be protected comes from within, even unconsciously. Is the desire to calm the beast, and change it too, a great challenge for women. Not long ago a girl asked me, But what about me?Am I a masochist? She always ends up noticing men who don’t suit her. He gets carried away by instinct and doesn’t develop much reason.
Although sometimes it’s not that simple, lack of self-esteem can also lead someone to pay attention to those who don’t treat you well, because in your heart you signed up Is that what I deserve?
Over the years, women have very different demands, become more demanding and value the interior and good feelings more, many change because they have already suffered a lot and have learned from their mistakes, others because they value the most and are looking for someone who does not pose so many problems to them.
With age, reason has more strength than instinct, but like everything in life, we should never generalize, because there are women anyway and each is a world.
What do you think? Do we like men who suck?