We all know what a slave is: a person who is nullified by freedom. Just as those with Stolcomo syndrome, in which the kidnapper can establish an emotional connection with the kidnapper, the slave can be content with this annulment of his freedom.
It has nothing to do with sexuality. The satisfied slave goes much further, do you want to know more about this syndrome?Do you suffer from satisfied slave syndrome?
“Nothing is as disheartening as a satisfied slave?
-Ricardo Flores Mimon-
When we talk about slavery, everyone thinks of something that’s already obsolete and belongs to the past, but?A satisfied slave has many mental currents, this makes it very difficult to rebel against the situation, because these currents are in your mind and are therefore part of it.
The way you enslave has changed, now it’s more subtle. So much so that we can be satisfied slaves without realizing it. Nobody likes to be a slave, but what if we don’t realize it?Here’s the big unknown ”, you’re going to reveal.
When you are unable to rebel against humiliation, when you keep your head down in an argument, without expressing your opinion, you are a slave. What are you afraid of? You know you have a desire to raise your voice, but something’s stopping you, or maybe we should say you’re stopping.
Our chains may not have been arranged by anyone, just by ourselves, the rules that exist to know how to live in society and the need to be perfect often restrict us to the freedom that tries to emerge from our own interior. unaware of that.
Are you happy to let yourself be humiliated?Does the pursuit of happiness really take you there?I really don’t.
Having satisfied slave syndrome can be compared to being under the effects of anesthesia: we think in a relatively similar way and do what we think we want to do, the reality is totally different. We are satisfied slaves and we believe it.
Let’s think about relationships for a moment. Depending on where you live, you will have a different view of relationships, infidelity, monogamy. Maybe you have a different relationship than you’ve been taught since childhood?But you’re not a satisfied slave yet?
All human beings seek happiness or believe that this is their goal, but what does “happiness” mean to you?Forming a family Do you have job stability? Happiness is dictated by society, people who rebel against this syndrome begin to experience a kind of representations for no reason and without stereotypes imposed by the society in which we live.
“Do they make fun of me because I’m different, I make fun of them because they’re all the same?
-Kurt Cobain-
There’s a uniform thought. Something that allows us not to feel strange about the people around us. But when you look further, when you get rid of the chains, you really become strangers. We start to see others as a group that thinks the same thing, while we’re different.
Remember those shoes you didn’t like at all, but you’re wearing now?Advertising, fashion and society itself? You didn’t like it before, but now you wear it, even if you don’t believe it, your friends push you when you put on the shoes you hated so much, the company urges you to be the same.
Think of our own family. Is machismo still present?
In many, yes, you know why? If we cannot rebel against this and give in, we will be grateful for this sexist treatment at home and reproduce it, without realizing it, in the future relationships we will have.
Today, there are still many things that should have been left in the past, so people are so incoherent. They don’t realize they’re reproducing something they’ve criticized and even rejected, isn’t it the same with shoes?
Trying to be yourself is very difficult. Looks like we’re all marked by the same pattern, and when you walk away from it, you become a stranger. Frustration, pessimism and depression can take hold of you. You can’t change the rest, but you can change. Get rid of the chains and get rid of it. Seek your own happiness away from everything society dictates.