Bud sex is a novel concept in the field of sex, a term used to refer to sexual practice among heterosexual men for pure pleasure who also claim their status as heterosexual.
Many believe that it is impossible to have sex with buds without being homosexual, while others consider it a sexual activity for simple pleasure, the fact is that those who practice it defend their heterosexuality, in some cases even have a partner and children and explain that they do so simply to satisfy their instincts.
- The phenomenon of yolk sex arises in the light of research conducted by sociologist Tony Silva of the University of Otago.
- Which involved the analysis of this practice in men of a rural population.
- In fact.
- From his testimony.
- Professor Silva pointed out some of the main characteristics on which this type of relationship is based.
- As well as the meaning it has for those involved.
Tony Silva explained that the goal was to study the sex of outbreaks and link them to the many factors that affect gender identity, such as culture, social context, place, historical moment and personal interpretations.
Based on survey data, participants of this sexual practice selected their partners based on their masculinity, race and gender identity, i. e. many men choose other “male” men, of their race (white, since the study was conducted with this population) and heterosexual or, secretly, bisexual.
In this way, they normalized encounters as heterosexual and normatively masculine (despite sexual relations between men), since the choice of people as made them feel “distant”: homosexuality.
In bud-sex there is no romance, although it is true that certain emotional ties can be created, because its members lay the foundation of their relationship in complicity and friendship, in fact, they often share afflictions, comments on politics, women, In this way, sex acts as an additional element of the relationship.
“Loveless sex only momentarily narrows the gap between two human beings. -Erich Fromm-
Another of the fundamental characteristics of the sex of the shoots is the secrecy that this practice implies, most of the respondents agreed to keep this a secret, in this way we have found that the fundamental pillar is not so much what they do with each other, but how they do.
Those who practice bud sex maintain a non-romantic and hidden relationship and interpret sexual acts from the current heteronormativity to reaffirm their masculinity.
Thus, the profiles of men who practice this sexual practice are heterosexual, white, generally married and with children, 50 years old and who have internalized hetero-normativity and male dominance for a long time. they found it difficult to express any other type of sexual desire, and they understand masculinity as a trait devoid of feminine characteristics, based on gender stereotypes.
Despite having a sexual relationship with a man, most maintain a homophobic discourse, rejection of women is evident when choosing sexual partners, in fact, men of effeminate appearance are rejected, being with another man who sees homosexuality more openly makes them have a vision of themselves that is not in line with what they have learned.
On the other hand, this homophobic thinking may come from previous stereotypical thinking, in relation to female and male roles, i. e. female attributes were considered inferior, men, on the other hand, have a positive value.
In conclusion, the sex of outbreaks is a practice that some men practice to express their sexual desire, a desire they have been deprived of for a while, however, learned morality and internalized norms guide their behavior, therefore, the way they practice it and the profile of the sexual partner allows them to reaffirm their beliefs.