As human beings, we are full of virtues, but also flaws. We all have our own weaknesses, but are they also the enemy’s weaknesses? Often times, the way we achieve our goals is “obscured” because it sometimes makes us anxious, disappointed in ourselves, and a bit stranded. In the end, weaknesses can be seen as an obstacle to our development like? Growth of the people we want to be.
Here are some steps you need to get to know yourself, so you can see the full picture you are, that is, visualize the areas you like, but also learn to discover those others?Dark? That we all have. :
- Thinking of yourself as almost perfect and without weaknesses is a big mistake.
- However.
- Many see themselves as such.
- It has to do with the ability to perceive this phenomenon.
- Have you ever wondered how things around you handle?How does humanity categorize those who think they are free from guilt.
- Flaws.
- And weaknesses?With this attitude you will only raise your ego.
- But your chances of improving something?Who can hurt himself and others?it’s going to decrease.
This part of the process is a bit difficult for us, honestly analyzing your weaknesses and their negative influence in your life is very difficult, but just acknowledge them, how do these weaknesses affect your life? Do they have a negative impact on those closest to you? You or the people you love the most? If this is your case and you want to reverse the situation, do what is necessary to analyze everything calmly.
It is not always enough to recognize weaknesses, be aware and want a transformation in our lives, many people fall on the precipice of their unbalanced emotions, at one time or another, because of unwillingness, but at other times, because they have no specific advice. Many have the best intentions?make a change in their lives, but don’t move on to the next step. This is where you need a friendly hand, a mentor. Maybe someone close to your family can guide you. In other cases, however, professional assistance may be required.
You may feel good, even if you know what your weaknesses are and how they affect your life. No change can interest you. Or maybe you want, deep down in your heart, to change your life. If this is the case, the key is to work on these weaknesses.
Don’t be too picky about yourself. Get started with simple tasks. Good advice is to involve a friend whenever you can. Discuss your goals with someone you trust; therefore, there is an increasing level of participation in this activity.
Keep in mind that weaknesses sometimes prevent us from making concrete decisions, you need to feel able to overcome them, but it is also important to embark on one change at a time, that is, in a great project. You’re more focused, have you thought about it, you know how to control it, you’re just missing the first step?
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