Leaving your parents’ house is a good time, the feeling of freedom and greater autonomy is one of the most exciting sensations that exist, when we leave our nest opens a world of responsibilities, situations and unexplored experiences. He began to tolerate uncertainty, learned from neglect, and the weeks, months and quarters better organized and planned.
The projects and feelings we will experience will require more or less strength depending on the age, personality and stage of life of the person. If the time comes for empowerment because we travel to study outside the house, coming of age, certainly independence and a feeling of “freedom”?will be more important. If the experience is combined with commitment to work and responsibility for rent, we will give more value to the organization and responsibilities in our day-to-day life.
- However.
- After that moment.
- Our plans sometimes fail and we find ourselves in the position of coming home to parents Is it easy to go back?How does it feel to fit into something we’ve forgotten?.
“You may be surprised to hear this, but failure doesn’t exist. Is failure just someone’s view of how certain things should be done?-Wayne Dyer-
When we return to the place that was once our home, the first thing to consider at the time is the importance of empathy, because living this situation can be difficult.
Once routines are established outside the family ceiling, it changes the way we understand the world and connect, ideally not only to take into account our needs, our discomfort, our guilt or our shame. in the shoes of our family members it is very important to find a balance in coexistence.
When we leave the nest, not only do our routines, priorities and thoughts change, so did those who stayed home, the important thing is to maintain temperance and understanding in a period of adaptation in which we must also try to understand our parents. Making them understand this dynamic can avoid many situations of accumulated tension.
“Who, taking an ancient path, learns the new one, can be considered a master. -Confucius-
When an already emancipated son returns home, the one who actually returns is someone who has become accustomed to new routines and a very different way to connect than he had before leaving. There are basic changes (such as economic changes), but you also have to adapt psychologically.
While it is a process of helping our child or loved one, there are details that we must take into account at this time in order to build a coexistence adapted to the new situation, the clearer the priorities, the better the new situation will work.
As you can see, returning to the parents’ home is a process of support and understanding between the parties involved, a time when communication, understanding and affection will avoid creating a situation that is already more difficult.
“Vitality is revealed not only in the ability to persist, but also in the ability to start over. -Francis Scott Fitzgerald-
Coming home after living in another country becomes a challenge