We often break into pieces to keep others full, so as not to open any wounds or leave wounds that have already hurt them, we do so without realizing it or at least without giving it any importance.
When you get used to giving without receiving, you end up feeling that dedicating yourself is selfish, but nothing further from the truth, exchange is fundamental in any relationship and everyone needs it as an emotional being.
- Loving oneself is something we must cultivate every day to stay complete.
- Because when we are broken.
- A direct consequence is suffering.
- And that does not allow us to give our best.
When we do not have reciprocity, we are aggressive with the principle of balance, which we must always maintain in order to keep ourselves complete and not collapse.
We must remember that emotional relationships are not only an interaction, but require a balanced and satisfying exchange that makes sense when placed in our social and emotional balance.
In other words, we cannot make our relationships mere opportunities to ‘give’, but we must also try to find a balance with ‘receive’. It’s neither selfish nor petty, but rewarding.
He who gives everything to the first person, who offers himself entirely to others, receives nothing in return and does not work on himself, ends up feeling empty and hurt, we cannot give up self-esteem to seek the happiness of others, because we end up being victims of our own attitude.
Only by playing with personal and other interests can we cultivate our own development without neglecting the other, that is, maintain balanced balance, in a straight and perfect line.
Giving and receiving are part of a whole. Once realized, this set makes us feel able to love and deserve love and recognition, on this basis we should be able to:
Keep in mind that big changes are always accompanied by difficulties, although the change is painful and uncomfortable, the gradual improvement will show you that far from being an end, this is an opportunity for the start of a great emotional moment.