If we rely only on what we see to draw conclusions, we are probably wrong with people, because what conveys appearance does not always correspond to the actual intensity of feelings, of what happens within each one. As they say, calm waters are not synonymous with depth without turbulence.
Therefore, quiet people are sometimes seen as more malleable, more likely to be convinced of something, as if they always accepted everything with resignation, like sheep. Dear mistake, tranquility in behavior is much more related to maturity than submission, because one of the characteristics of those who become adults must be precisely the ability not to raise the voice, not to be aggressive, not to become unbalanced in times of opposition.
- Calm means.
- In these cases.
- That the person is aware that rabies and tantrums.
- Through offenses and screams.
- Are useless attitudes and that they only testify against himself.
- No one should be fearless to realize that he is not accepting something he does not accept.
- On the contrary.
- Maintaining balance will be vital if we are to find solutions and reflect on the causes that have contributed to things reaching this stage.
Is it perfectly possible to disagree without being aggressive, positioning yourself without shouting, disturbing everyone, that is, it is possible?Even necessary? Stay calm when you’re upset, when everything goes wrong, when you come across what you don’t like, at home, at work, on the street, this doesn’t mean we passively accept what happened, but first we’ll control our emotions and then act appropriately.
Therefore, the apparent calm should not be confused with acceptance and condescension, while people who are not explosive are labeled as the easiest to handle and convince of anything, because that is not true, we must understand that there is still someone who has actually become an adult, who has enough maturity to withstand storms without exaggerating the fanfare , without altering the order of the parts. Instead of taking advantage of these people, should we learn?with them, for they are extremely necessary in times of turbulence to see.