One phrase we have internalized, but rarely conform to what he says, is “don’t do with others what you wouldn’t want them to do with you. “A deep phrase, with a lot of morality, and pedagogical information that, depending on the moment, becomes another phrase with a meaning ignored by our actions.
Sometimes we are not aware that we are doing something that we have criticized before, we may not be able to control and open our eyes to something that we disagree with, but which we have done before.
One of the things I personally can’t stand is inconsistency, and that’s where the main point lies. If you don’t like being intrigued in your life, why are you medding into other people’s lives?
It is important to note that human beings are in a continuous process of change, which I think is right today, tomorrow it may not be, today I may want to get married and in a few years I do not want Is it common, as we evolve, mature, change?Experiences mark and change our lives, we never stop learning and, in the same way, we never stop evolving.
But what happens when I think of something and immediately do the opposite ? , it does not evolve, it does not change or mature, it is pure inconsistency. And can we be incoherent? Yes we can. No one prevents us from being like this, because we’re not tied to anything, but think about your emotional stability.
We need to know who we are and act on that basis. We can’t think of anything and we do the opposite soon after.
Yes, it irritates me dealing with incoherent people, because the incoherent person himself must have infinite mixed ideas and none in his head, which makes them very incapable of arguing and defending their own thoughts and actions.
Incoherent people often do things they don’t want others to do with them, but how can they think that?It’s selfish and impossible. If you don’t want to be lied to, but you lie to others, you’ll inevitably attract a lot of lies.
Have you ever heard that if you’re negative, you’ll only attract negative things, but if you’re positive, you’ll only attract the right things?Maybe you’re not aware of it, or maybe you are. But the truth is, the more positive you are, the better things will be. Learn how to do this:
There are many situations that lead us to do what we don’t like with others, whether out of revenge, hatred or for any other reason, but does that make you happy?And how to change? As we’ve seen, if you don’t like to be done this, let go!Look for positive people who will only bring good things into your life.
Images courtesy of Duy Huynh and Claudia Tremblay.