Don’t ask for the love of someone who doesn’t have time for you, someone who only thinks of himself. Never do that. He who makes you feel invisible and insignificant in the face of indifference does not deserve you, this only deserves you who, carefully, makes you feel important and present.
Love must be shown, but it should never be be begged. The need to pray for love is the most faithful reflection of an emotional injustice, an imbalance in the feeling that sustains the relationship.
- Those who say less.
- But do more.
- Deserve their love.
- You don’t deserve someone who only looks for you when you need them.
- But is by your side when you need them and not only when your own interest allows it.
- Love deserves that.
- Without expecting anything.
- It will carry that feeling in you and make you feel that it is important.
In the end it is simple, the person who deserves you is the one who, having the freedom to choose, stays close to you, dedicating your time and thoughts.
They say that there is no shortage of time, but disinterest because, when you really want to, dawn becomes a day, Tuesday becomes Saturday and a moment becomes opportunity.
They also say that the one who expects too much is disappointed and suffers. That’s why we need to check our expectations and remember the teaching: “Don’t expect anything from anyone, expect everything from you. “
Because hopes and expectations are often the basis of emotional failures and therefore perceive the attitudes of others as a lack of interest.
When we perceive what others do or say as lies, we obviously feel pain, emotional pain that behaves in the same way as physical pain.
In this sense, it is worth making an important point: we must give the psychological discomfort the importance it deserves, I would not think of ignoring the severe stomach pains or a strong and constant headache.
So why should we ignore emotional pain? We cannot simply let time heal, we must work on pain and extract appropriate teachings in the same way that we would stop drinking hot chocolate if we discover that it is the cause of our stomach pains.
This is very important because socially there is a false belief that psychological discomfort is a sign of weakness and that, at the same time, time will heal wounds without the need to disinfect them, or to make bandages or care to prevent them from bleeding. .
Spend time with the people who deserve it and you’ll feel good. Don’t beg anyone’s attention, friendship or love. Anyone who wants to be with you sooner or later will prove their intention.
So, if you are experiencing a situation of painful emotional injustice, remember:
? Don’t look for someone who doesn’t look for you and doesn’t answer your calls, don’t look for someone you don’t miss. Do not miss those who do not seek you, do not write to anyone who does not write to you, do not submit to the punishment of indifference that is evident in ignored messages or unfounded silences.
? Don’t wait for those who don’t expect you, have fun and stop begging and ask for love because, as we said, love must be shown and felt, but never be implored, keep your affection for those who love you and understand you without any judgment.
? And above all, don’t forget the value of your smile in the mirror, love and appreciate yourself for everything you are, and not so someone who doesn’t deserve you makes you think of yourself. Just because someone treats you badly doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do your best to surround yourself with people who do you good and love you well.