There are people who only come to us when they need something, others, in turn, have the right to ask for everything in return for nothing because the bond prevails and it is our moral obligation to assume, silence and give unreservedly. it’s not right. The art of reciprocity and respect is born in the heart, not from moral or family impositions.
One thing we all know is that we live in a society where it is customary to think that family and spouse are the paradigm of emotional well-being, however, it is in these personal circles that the feeling of pain and, of course, disappointments are more concentrated, because anyone who thinks that simply offering love for nothing is synonymous with happiness is wrong , is to fall into the abyss of our own mistake.
Sometimes we can really get to know people by the way they treat us when they no longer need us.
The main problem is undoubtedly in this? Used by many emotional or family statements, when they think they have the right to ask for virtually anything at a very low price, even if it’s hard for us to self-esteem. in without thinking and then repenting, it is necessary to reformulate the strategy: “Propose only what you really need”.
An interesting article published in space? Goodtherapy? On how positive personal relationships are built, she explains that while we all know what reciprocity means, we do not recognize it as a valuable asset to live in.
To objectively analyze what others need and to act on it, and not in the face of its impositions, is to act with wisdom and balance. Reciprocity is not an “all or nothing” but to know how to take, thank, multiply and give back. what we’ve been given.
If our parents need help with household chores, let’s make an agreement with them about it. If we realize that our friends need financial support, we will offer them help based on our “real options”, not their requirements.
There are those who see happiness as a total offering, taking the heart out of the body to envelop every loved one in a cloak of protection without limit and without measure, from now on no one can spend much time with the heart outside, because then it will be dry, empty and so empty that there will be more room only for repentance and frustration.
In conclusion, knowing what others need is to develop our sensitivity and intuition to the possible needs of our nearest environment, but to be receptive to the needs of others should not make us forget what we need, because if we neglect, we will lose everything?
If you want authentic love, true and full love, start by loving yourself.