Deaf to messages that you don’t know, you don’t deserve it or “you can’t”. The first step towards personal growth is the liberation of everything that hurts and despises you, because only you know what is worthwhile and you must do everything possible to achieve what you really deserve: happiness.
The million-dollar personal growth industry is filled with training courses, books and conferences in this complex ocean of happiness. However, sometimes we find ourselves desperate. We wonder whether this quest for balance, calmness and realization will be nothing more than a holy grail, an inaccessible entelequia.
- We could say unequivocally that there is no exact theory about happiness.
- There are actually many.
- All we can do is gather the ingredients of each of them to create our own formula.
- Based on the complexities and needs that define us.
- Not to mention.
- In fact.
- Include an additional ingredient: courage!.
Because what you deserve pushes the boundaries of fear
Beyond the inhibitions of those who thread into the cracks of their insecurities, take power off and start changing your cognitive style to take the reins of these restless seas that take us away from our island from tranquility, our true identity.
We suggest that you discuss these issues with us.
Sometimes it happens. Sometimes we become invisible, our voice becomes an echo of other voices, or our needs and desires disappear to make way for others who better match the expectations of others. We don’t really know how it all started, but what we really noticed. It’s the pain in our breathing and the cold current that is our low self-esteem, so poorly treated.
We could blame our family, which is so toxic and selfish, we could also blame this chaotic and painful emotional relationship that we have had or have of our misfortune, however, although this is difficult to admit, responsibility is ours alone. It is not what surrounds us that generates anxiety, but the way we connect with certain scenarios, with certain people, to the point of becoming invisible, of becoming hostages to fear.
We must be aware, we must set aside what we feel to remember what we deserve, something like this can only be achieved by being fully responsible for ourselves, the thoughts we incubate and indecision cause us to fall into the abyss of fear to the point of letting others decide for us, others to tell you what you deserve and what you don’t want.
Don’t allow this: wear armor that is your stature, put on stronger shoes, and walk a new life path inhabited by responsibility and personal determination. You deserve what you want.
No one should make you think you don’t deserve what you want. This idea is something to keep in mind, especially in childhood. Yes, as a child, do we get into the habit of hearing the fatigosa story of?It’s not for you, or “you can’t do that,” self-fulfilling prophecies will finally determine our whole life, because we will stumble, stop fighting for our dreams. They must have stolen our wings in advance.
It is necessary to suppress the power of those who dare to steal our freedom from us. No one has the right to emotionally degrade us, to launch their catastrophic torpedoes, to call us weak or losers. Put the filter of wisdom in your ears and armor of “Healthy Selfishness?”in your heart and start remembering what you really deserve.
We explain how to do it
First of all, keep in mind that you’re not the only person who deserves to be happy, others also have that right, but they can do it their way, however they want, we’ll do it our way, but without hurting anyone. .
Don’t let him. If necessary, go back and breathe.
What you deserve, want and need is beyond those environments where you are invisible and where your voice does not matter, because remember, your whole person matters, you are a beautiful person, brave and able to achieve what you have in mind.
The most important ingredient to be happy is yourself.