No one likes to hurt someone they love, to see someone who loves annoyed by something that has come out of us, it is unpleasant to know that there is someone who has felt bad about something we have done or said, yet we will. not being able to swallow anything we don’t like, so people don’t get mad at us or get sick.
Any relationship, be it friendship, work or love, must go through turbulence, so that the limits of each of the parties involved are clear, people really get to know each other over time and with the descents overcome by dialogue, which It is not always Easy Each person’s truth must be transparent, otherwise the relationship wears out and gradually collapses.
- If we are the kind of person who cannot handle the fact that we will not always be pleasant.
- We will end up accumulating setbacks in ourselves.
- In the same way.
- Some people.
- Realizing this.
- Will not fail to take advantage of our insecurities.
- To suck as much as they can.
- To take advantage of us.
- For they will know that we will not be able to deny them anything.
We cannot allow them to treat us in a way that we do not deserve, simply because we love or do not want the other person to be angry or hurt because of us, it is necessary to clarify our limits, because then those who accept not the limits will not come close to us, and it will be a great favor for our lives. Fewer sincere friends are worth more than several leeches around us.
Loving does not in any way mean having to submit to the mandates and abuses of the other, for the one who really loves also says that no, he also resigns, also points out what the other does not accept to receive. Yes, we will have to give, to raise certain things, if we want to be in a relationship with someone, however, no trace of our dignity can be removed in this process, or we will move further and further away from the romantic encounter that makes us better, happier, more people.