“If you don’t realize what’s worthwhile and give up what you wanted most, does life become idiotic?For the songs and popular wisdom are full of great truths and one of them is that sometimes fear paralyzes us.
Changing the comfort zone, even if we are not satisfied, is hard and scary work, you have become accustomed to that feeling and taking risks is scary, but you did not think that maybe, on the other side of the mountain There could be a better and more beautiful landscape, with more light and different colors waiting for you.
- Will it be a new job.
- A new love that loves you as you deserve.
- A change of country or city that offers you the opportunities you’ve been waiting for all your life?.
Don’t let something get out of fear if you really think it’s worth it. Life is like a Russian roulette wheel that will take care of passing the opportunity, but you’ll never regret what you did, but what you didn’t.
Turn up the volume on the video, dance and laugh at your fear!
When you make these important and crucial decisions in your life, the simple satisfaction of overcoming your fear of the unknown will make you grow as a person, you will feel much better and feel your self-esteem as a bladder full of joy. Achieved.
Remember when you were just a kid and you were afraid to start swimming, riding a bike, your first day of school? Or when you were wondering what your first kiss would be like and it scared you, if it would be soccer-sized. I bet you took a chance and did everything, you felt so much better, didn’t you?
For now you think it’s the same thing, that fear is only in your head, that you’re often your worst enemy, you and the obstacles you put in place, much bigger than they really are?Why do we like to tell stories full of fear?But don’t let him get away!
Don’t let love go if it comes, don’t give up on a new job for fear of not living up to it?Take a deep breath, look in the mirror, smile and move on?Don’t let him get away!
If you think about it, life doesn’t have so many secrets, but you have to be prepared to discover them.
And many times, if life makes sense, it’s because of these wonderful opportunities that appear by surprise, and that renew us as the best of the “uprisings,” but it’s an “uprising for the soul,” so go ahead?
“Love suppresses fear and, conversely, fear suppresses love. And not only love scares away fear, but also intelligence, goodness, every thought of beauty and truth, and all that remains is silent despair; and in the end, fear expels even humanity itself from man. ?
(Aldous Huxley)
Fear is natural to humans; fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of change?but when he gets angry and paralyzed, you have to face him, and how to do it?
1. Accept that you are afraid, there is nothing wrong with that, this is the first step to meet him and face him.
2. Identify your fear. What are you scared of?
Think about what could be worse if things don’t go the way you want and how you’d handle the situation. If I change jobs and it doesn’t work, how many months of financial reserve do I have, what could you work on until you find something stable?
“It’s not brave who’s not afraid, but who knows how to deal with it?
(Nelson Mandela)