Life is too short to chase someone who’s not even looking for you. There’s no need to chase them when they already know where you are, when they already know your home and know your secrets.
The thing is, there are people we don’t care about, but care about. In these cases, it can be difficult to understand the situation, as concern for others does not speak the language of selfishness.
- Keep in mind that your phone number consists of the same numbers and that in fact there is no shortage of time.
- But lack of interest.
- Think that when someone wants or needs something or someone.
- They are able to move the sky and earth to share.
- Even if it is only a few seconds.
Hanging out and asking for crumbs of affection that they don’t want to give you is not healthy, neither in the short nor long term, however, some manifestations can soften us and serve to seek reasons to remain rooted in that person’s desire. to stay in our lives.
If you think about it, all you can do with this attitude is unnecessarily prolong emotional suffering, submitting to the will of others makes you a puppet of your needs and desires.
In that sense, of course, there are things that happen because they have to happen, but there are others that happen when we get them, we cannot feel free or happy if we live stuck in hopes that manipulate others.
It is difficult to let go or abandon what we consider our own, whether feelings or people, that is, some of the stones that we carry behind us are linked by a sense of identity and belonging that merges with our fear of losing something. we think it’s so intense and important.
However, despite all the emotional chaos that brings us together to some people, we also get tired of not valuing ourselves, it’s likely that by realizing this you’ll feel a little selfish, which is terrible for emotional health.
Feeling that when you stop taking a situation or some people fail is appallingly common. The basis of this feeling is the fear we feel of facing the emptiness of loss.
That is, we feel that if we do not sacrifice we lose the opportunity to build part of the emotional history of our lives, however, what you really do is behave in the cruelest way possible with yourself, your expectations and your desires.
The path of emotional freedom is built from the stones we liberate; that is, toxic feelings and people we get rid of.
If it doesn’t bring joy to your life, what if it doesn’t enlighten or build you up?IF IT stays, but doesn’t grow? IF this gives you security and thus avoids the development effort?IF YOU don’t bring recognition to your talents?IF you don’t caress your being, what if it doesn’t make you take off?IF YOU speak but don’t? IF there’s no place in your life for you?LIBERATION Are you trying to change it? FREE If he?I? Is it necessary? IF there are more unaccounts than meetings?IF you don’t add to your life? Launch
FREE? The fall will be much less painful than the pain of clinging to what might have been, but it wasn’t.