We spend a lot of time doing the right thing for the wrong people, suffering the consequences of bad choices along the way, suffering for nothing and useless and unmet people, harboring vain hopes of what has no chance of happening. long investing in emptiness, waiting for the return of what is not right, waiting for the smiles of those who do not even look at us well, we must focus on the real, because even if there is not much truth in these lands, that will suffice.
We must stop trying to please the ungrateful, dissatisfied and unable to receive something from abroad, there are individuals too closed to accept what is not in them, which is not part of this small world in which they are locked up, stagnant to beliefs and feelings that do not change, do not rethear, do not move. Trying to reach them doesn’t make sense.
- We must avoid servitude to the relaxed.
- To the exploited.
- To those who do not leave the premises alone.
- To those who evade any kind of responsibility.
- Because they know that always someone will do it for them.
- We really should and can take for ourselves.
- Otherwise we will accumulate tons of luggage that are not even related to our lives.
- A lot of people need help.
- Yes.
- But a lot of people need shame.
We cannot maintain dubious friendships with people who do not express the slightest need for us, as if our presence and absence were the same, something unimportant, invisible, expandable, not all of us who care will please us, the return of esteem and affection is never a certainty, so we need to enter exclusively into real encounters.
It is neither easy nor easy to fully understand what we can water with the certainty of return and reciprocity, since people, events, life, everything is unpredictable, although much of what will happen in our lives cannot be controlled, keeping our truths under control. and the certainty that we deserve to be happy will make us stronger in the face of falls, without giving up our dreams.