That we lead a busy, crazy and tight life, we already know that, after all, we have to deal with it every day, we have so much to decide, to know the best way to go to achieve the goals. tends to happen, responsibilities and choices are adjusted according to our maturity.
In our childhood we have those who make decisions for us, and it was much more convenient, wasn’t it? in adolescence, they started to charge us for the first job, good grades at school and with that the desire to complete the majority age so as not to have to give more satisfaction to anyone.
- You realize that this is the stage in which you will have to give more satisfaction to others.
- More that will cover you.
And the fundraiser comes from everywhere: first you have to have the best training, have the best position and the best salary, buy the car of the year, be surrounded by good friends, make amazing trips and many times, and then, not to mention and not least, the requirement to have a good lasting relationship, of course.
Who has never felt compelled to be asked about something like this?There’s so much pressure that sometimes you don’t even know if you’ve chosen the right one, and you fall into fear and fear of doing things and people. that others say are good for you.
Combien family party did you attend just to listen: What about the bride and groom?This phrase has already become more than a cliché, events do not necessarily have to be the same for everyone and will never happen at the same time, each person has their time and their story.
You always have been and you will be accused of not continuing with this wonderful boy (in everyone’s eyes). He’s so perfect, responsible, in love with you, beautiful and smelling, but what have you done?Boy. I had it all, but he was missing something, it made you laugh, you didn’t fall in love.
But that’s enough to point your finger at you and say you don’t appreciate what’s really good and that you’re just making the wrong decision. Wait, bad for whom? We’re not going to say your life is perfect, but it hasn’t gotten to the point of being a big mistake either.
And if it is not the love life of dreams, they will tell you that you should look for a better job, it makes you happier, maybe change the domain, who knows, whatever the topic, they will always want to tell you what to do.
And what are you doing with that? Listen, filter what makes sense or not, but in the end, just follow the instructions in your heart with a hint of reason.
People will always have this madness, everyone charges, they expect the other to move forward more and more, or keep comparing what’s better or worse, you have nothing to prove to anyone, everyone sees what’s right for them and he’ll always find reason to say you didn’t do it right, don’t take it too much.
However, you don’t have to feel pressured: realize what you really want in real time, only you know what’s best for you It may not be the best option, but I’m sure you’ll learn a lot so that at the right time you can act more consistently and the result will be surprising.
For family and friends so concerned about the orientation of other people’s lives, here’s a message: my life is very interesting, thank you!