Needless to say, you miss me, you like to share your time with me, you value the time we spend together, we haven’t seen each other in a long time, tell us where and when we see each other. Your words will be empty if you don’t give me some of your time.
If you can’t find a moment to share with me, you may not miss me, maybe you’ve decided to get on with your life and forget the friendship or love that brought us, if you’re not able to give me a moment, don’t say you miss me, because that’s not true.
- “I don’t know why.
- But today I miss you.
- For valuing your presence.
- Someone said that oblivion is full of memory.
-Mario Benedetti-
You were part of my life, and although you are no longer by my side, although our relationship is not the same, I can not help feeling nostalgic, remember those days that we share and that we will never return. we enjoyed it again, but it could be other days, other times we’ll create together.
I miss the way you look at me when you knew what I was thinking, when I was angry and you already knew the reason, I miss saying good night even though you were thousands of miles away and it was still daylight for you.
I’d love to see you again, because even though it’s been a long time, I’ve always thought about you and I want to look you in the eye again and know that you were always around, that you were thinking about me, that you cared about my well-being.
Surprising you is a very human feeling and can happen in many situations, we may miss a friend who has moved to another country because we will stop sharing many things, but we will be happy that he is happy and continues his way. change, but if the contact remains, the friendship will continue.
When we experience a romantic breakup, it is normal to move from an initial state of resentment to the other person to another time when there may be a tendency to idealize the relationship you have had and the other person, but we must overcome nostalgia and think that if this person no longer wants to be in our lives, it will be better to respect it.
“The worst way to miss someone is to sit next to them and know that they can never be yours.
-Gabriel García Márquez-
But we can also miss the dead, or their own childhood or places we once visited and never saw again because they may have disappeared, but they remain in our memory. They are beautiful memories that we keep, and that feeling of nostalgia fills the memory with pleasant memories.
But this nostalgia can not always be part of our life, because we must continue to appreciate every little detail of our existence here and now, nostalgia is overcome by taking time, enjoying the people who love you, the things that make you happy. the good things you have in your life, everything you enjoy and all those people next to you, that make you really miss.
Write on a piece of paper everything that happens well to you, everything that makes you happy, to read it and remember it when you feel depressed. Don’t let sadness overwhelm you, get out of the house and enjoy your unique life. Forget who has, I forget you and don’t give the place of choice to the one who doesn’t deserve it, a friend or partner you really miss will be looking for you.
No matter if it’s a time or several days, tell me where and when we will see each other and then I will be to share time with you, if you look for me, if you write to me, if you want to know about me, as I do, then I will know that you really miss me, that time does not matter, that it was only a period of time that we have already overcome with our love and our love. us wherever and when we see each other. Tell me a place and an hour and I’ll look you in the eye again and know you’ve always been there.
“When we shake the drawer of memories, it is the memories that end up shaking us.
Andrés Castuera Micher