I can’t take things anymore, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I don’t want to waste any more time on what I don’t like or it hurts.
I no longer have the patience of cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of all kinds, I do not need to please those who do not love me, love those who do not love me and smile at those who do not love me. value me.
- I don’t spend a minute with liars who want to manipulate me.
- I decided not to live with hypocrisy.
- Dishonesty and useless praise.
- I no longer tolerate frivolous conversations without content.
I am my heart because I hate conflict and comparison. I believe in a world of different people and ideas, which is why I avoid people of a rigid and inflexible character.
Friends must be loyal; I don’t understand anyone who can’t congratulate and encourage, exaggeration bothers me and I find it hard to accept those who don’t like animals, and above all, don’t I have patience with those who don’t?Don’t you deserve it?
Meryl Streep, adapted text
At certain stages of our lives, pretending that it is normal to be accepted socially makes no sense, smiling, pleasing everyone and trying to be perfect can be very exhausting.
Not everything is always right and as we wish, but it seems that we are obliged to show joy, happiness and tolerance with everything and with everyone. Pretending is painful; Now it’s time to change.
We say everything is fine, even when we have no reason to be happy and satisfied. There are complicated situations that sadden us and hurt us. These negative emotions don’t mean you’re not healthy; it is normal to feel sadness with a broken heart or a loved one’s illness.
There is nothing more painful than trying to look like everything is fine when something bothers us inside, ends up turning against us and we feel very anxious.
Did you know that eight out of ten people pretend to be okay when they’re sad?
Our emotions mix, intoxicate us and we feel confused and fragile, we try to deceive others and ourselves.
Therefore, it is necessary to free yourself from the obligation to always be in a good mood and show how you really are. It is possible to deceive everyone, but it is impossible to deceive our conscience.
Try to give the impression that we are not causing discomfort and even diseases like depression, anxiety, fatigue, discouragement, insomnia, irritability and more.
Try to be authentic and show at all times what you really are like, accept your mistakes and don’t be ashamed of your past.
Life does not require perfection, but happiness. Accept as it is, reinvent your life, to be happy we must accept our qualities and our faults.
The most important lesson in life is to get to know each other better, accept, and love, even if it requires unlearning certain things and abandoning many beliefs that we have for many years.
Open your eyes and dare to look at your life without a mask
Original Spanish text by Raquel Aldana.