Have you ever stopped to think about the importance of dialogue in a relationship?
When we start a relationship, we project many expectations in the other person and in ourselves, this is our first meeting and we want to give our best in every way.
- Do we want to please ourselves and be kinder.
- Our most loving side?When you’re in love.
- Happiness gets you drunk and it’s hard to be angry.
The flirtation phase, passion, encounters and finally the final choice of couple amazes us a little. When we’re in love, we’re and we’re not ourselves.
If we love this person, we hide our flaws, our differences, and this can be conscious or unconscious. We show each other as “the ideal person. “
However, over time, we say phrases like, “You weren’t like that!You’ve never shown you don’t like it! But when we first met, didn’t we?!?”
Why are we doing this? We start very carefully, showing our best smile, and then we begin the problems that can shake our relationship.
Choose your partner carefully. This decision will depend on 90% of your happiness or sadness; but after carefully choosing, will the work begin?
H. Jackson Brown-
We can have an open dialogue above all, even at the beginning of the relationship, it all depends on the delicacy and intelligence with which we act.
We want to meet this person who attracts us so much and who also wants to meet us.
Why can’t we stay in the clouds, smell butterflies in our stomachs and at the same time show ourselves how we really are and make clear what we want for our relationship?
We leave here, with great affection, some suggestions for you to talk to this person who starts to be so special to you and with which you would like to have a lasting relationship, the dialogue will always allow the bride and groom to get to know each other. one better.
There are many people who can’t imagine a relationship that doesn’t end in marriage, but for others, marriage doesn’t make sense and even causes rejection.
What if your partner didn’t want to get married and it was the biggest dream of your life or the other way around?
Knowing everyone’s opinions about marriage can be very important for your future.
“There is a secret to living happily with your loved one: don’t try to change it” – Chardone-
Having children or not is a vital decision in our lives. No one should sacrifice such an important decision for a couple.
In fact, many relationships and marriages break down for this reason, so before a relationship deepens it is important to know the other person’s opinion on this matter.
Religion can unite or separate people; marks a model of behavior and behavior in their lives.
Would you be able to live with someone with different beliefs than yours?Ask what the other person’s beliefs are before making a more serious commitment.
There are many people who value money and cannot be happy without material things, however, there are others who prefer to work less and have more free time for life.
The question of money also demonstrates a lifestyle. Is this person’s lifestyle the same as yours?
Every person is a world: are there adventurous, quiet, shy or extroverted people, maybe you don’t even like getting up off the couch and your partner is passionate about rafting?
Do you think this relationship can work? We need to find out
Love is a difficult issue, but as in everything in life, “we understand each other talking. “
You’re the only person who really knows what’s essential or not for you in a relationship, have a healthy dialogue with your partner, and decide what’s best for your future.