Throughout our lives, we have to go through a series of undisputed steps that make us mature, grow and become what we really want to be, achieving all the victories we expect.
Every step is a learning process, but what happens when we are stuck in one of these steps ?, when we do not advance in life, we are static and perhaps lost, not knowing where to go, why not overcome what is happening to us?
- “You always have to know when a stage ends.
- Cycle closures.
- Door closures.
- End of chapters; what we call.
- What matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that are over.
- -Paulo Coelho-.
In our lives we spend happy moments, but we also face sad and traumatic moments that cause us wounds and scars, we must embrace these moments to continue our life and overcome the stage in which we find ourselves, it is time to get off the train. .
We must be sure to overcome the steps we all go through in our lives, for this it is important to know what steps we are talking about:
These are the four important steps that we all take or will take at some point, curiously moving from childhood to adolescence is something that everyone overcomes, however, when we reach adulthood, it becomes more complicated.
Many people decide to remain teenagers, where we can escape the responsibilities and decisions that are part of adult life.
Similarly, how many people want to stay in adulthood rejecting the old age that comes immediately after?
You may decide to stay at one stage, but it is not the natural course of life and, like everything, choosing it will have its consequences.
“Live intensely every step of your life because the past is the past, so as not to suffer for what may have been. -Ivelisse Guerrero-
To give an example, do we know why the terrible crisis of the 1940s arose?Why do many people this age end up behaving like teenagers?
It is the fear of what is to come, the passage of time that runs and runs non-stop and terrifies us and opens great wounds of frustration and helplessness that we need to heal.
When we are trapped at one stage, whether for comfort, fear, trauma or any other reason, an injury arises in us because we do not live life as we would like or as we should.
Have you ever felt the feeling of not having a dream, that nothing seems to make sense?We can feel this at any stage of our lives and, in some cases, this thinking can lead to depression.
However, we need to know that at each stage positive but also negative things will happen, things that will prepare us or not to move on to the next car.
Accept that it is normal to sometimes feel hurt over time, the stress of worry, the fear of taking responsibility?But there’s a solution!
Staying on a stage will only feed this open wound, to heal it and turn it into victory you have to look further, only then can we continue to progress in our lives, even if we carry a backpack full of learnings. scars on our backs.
But, if you pass a step, make sure you have healed your wound correctly, as it can open at any time, which will probably be more painful.
My injuries have taught me that staying is not the answer, and that it is moving forward that will make me understand what I previously lacked in understanding.
It always advances in your life, even if it hurts, even if the path is difficult, victory will be to accept and heal this wound that has been left behind and is now considered a more learning experience.
Do not allow yourself to stay in a car, quietly, while the train continues on its way, time passes and you have to learn to walk and progress, always yearning to reach the last car full of happiness.