A person with an ego problem is generally unpleasant, selfish, malicious, destructive and tends to judge others negatively.
The ego continually needs to show a good image to society, after all, it is not at all humble. It’s like an illusion, a fantasy that puts one person above others. Your opinion of yourself is distorted, the real one?I,escaping and getting to know each other becomes complicated.
- People who are fooled by the ego think they’re superior and don’t see reality.
- It’s a mistake to think.
- Try to make a presentation of what you’d like to be rather than present yourself as you really are.
- Mask.
- A role that separates us more and more from who we really are.
This mask needs flattery, approval from others, needs to control situations and people, wants to have power because deep down it is afraid and needs to be superior to hide its true feeling of inferiority. The ego is like a character that is created and moves away from simplicity, is characterized by a complication, by a false self-esteem that must be projected so that no one sees the enormous insecurity that lurks within it.
You won’t take too much risk for fear of failure, you’ll be in the comfort zone and in the routine, who feeds your fake?I? With flattery and acceptance from others. The known land will be your habitat, you will live alone where you are accepted, you will not want to risk unknown situations for fear of being disapproved or criticized, a person with true self-esteem is not afraid to explore the unknown. it’s because other people’s reviews are accepted and don’t bother you. These are opportunities to learn without diminishing your personal worth.
When the ego does not feed on others, the person feels bad and may have to deal with a multitude of negative emotions, such as shyness, anger, self-pity and fear, then we will realize that it was a false security disguised.
When the person does not accept criticism and does not recognize himself, the mask falls off and we can realize that we are not what we thought we were. According to the ego, your identity depends on what people think of you, so it’s so important not to let the ego dominate your life, if this happens, you’ll be like a blade that moves with the force of the wind, depending on what you receive from society.
The ego develops in the form of protection. We usually let ourselves be dominated by it because, in this way, we feel safer in the face of any attack. The voice of the ego confuses us and takes us away from our true self, prevents us from feeling the things of the heart and the purest emotions. It is important that you understand that all external acceptance needs are just illusions and fantasies created by your ego.
You don’t need any of this to be happy, all you need is to be immersed in simplicity and humility, I don’t want to be more than you are, nor do I believe you less, because in the end, we’re all the same. Our inner essence is not so complicated, it tries to eliminate guilt, demands, perfectionism, the need to win or be right and the greed of your life. Enjoy the little things, enjoy the beauty of life, be satisfied with your personal desires (have fun practicing leisure, personal care, love, buy for small whims).
In the end we realize that human beings are not so complicated, that if we set aside thoughts, we are mere beings who only want to enjoy the existence of good company, let love flow naturally, focus as you really are and have a lot of fun Listen to its inner essence while relaxing. We have in us a person that is really worth it, do not let the ego deceive you and show the worst of you.