Evaluate us, discover our personality, overcome problems, get rid of the labels imposed from birth, we can analyze and modify ourselves using a tool known in psychology as an enegram.
The enegram technique discovers what our personality or type of ego is, the bigger our ego is, the less ability we have to assume and accept what we don’t have, and so the level of individual suffering increases. feel and act, closely related to the styles of personal development, detailing the cause and effect that our reactions produce, the result of the personality that we carry since we were children.
- If we work deeply on ourselves.
- Looking at ourselves and freeing ourselves from automatic reactions that hurt and hurt those around us.
- We can move away from the labels that prevent us from living life in freedom.
Once the type is detected, we must learn to work on weaknesses and limits, in order to overcome, and therefore a different attitude towards the world.
They build life and gain the affection of those around them by being perfect, they see themselves as superior beings. They judge others for their mistakes. They’re afraid to make mistakes. They are meticulous and extremely critical of themselves, compulsive and methodical. Volatile, willing to hold a grudge. They usually have extremist thoughts: white or black / good or bad.
They get the affection of others by offering them help. They manipulate other people’s lives. They offer personal dedication in a selfless and generous way, put the needs of others before your own and guarantee a sense of indispensable satisfaction. They need to free themselves; they change their own personality to suit the needs of others; use empathy as a strategy to win or diminish the affection of others.
They get affection through success and their image, which becomes essential. His main interest is work. His feelings are forgotten while he’s working. They are competitive and efficient. They’re afraid of failure. His heart and feelings are forgotten and replaced by work. “I’m what I do. ” They consider the fictional image created by them to be real.
They want the unattainable, the hardest thing to achieve. They avoid the ordinary and have low self-esteem. They live as if life were a theatrical performance (a comedy, a drama, etc. ). They do not bravely face life and have an affinity for the dramatic arts. They are melancholy, sensitive and emotionally profound.
They need privacy and usually don’t get involved. They stay away from affection and emotions. They need places where they feel protected and where they can limit contact. They meet the free time they have. They divide life into small plots. His desire is to know the key to how the world works.
Generally avoid action. They are eager and loyal. Skeptics, they fear betrayal. His motto is: think instead of act. They can submit to something or rebel against the authorities. They identify with the causes of the less fortunate. They lead the opposition. They are afraid of facing their own anger and they are also afraid of the anger of others.
They want to lead a wonderful life. They come up with good ideas and look for good jobs. They are contagious with your enthusiasm, they avoid suffering and conflict. Charm and optimism are your defense.
They’re controlling and impulsive. They protect themselves with the power they have. They demand contacts and defend their loved ones. They set the rules in their work and in their personal lives. They care about justice and avoid weakness. They have to set limits. There are no intermediate points in your actions.
They have the ability to relate to everyone and seek neutrality. Avoid conflict. They act according to their customs. They usually bother with changes. Isolation is not part of your routine. Anger or anger seems distant and causes separation. They are, in a way, patient and stubborn. They expect time to solve problems.
“Man’s personality determines in advance the degree of his fortune.