Even if the wind changes, my sailboat takes me to you, always to you, I do not know how to sail in other seas, I know no other way to sail than to wear it, but you are my wind and you make the sea the cloak of tears that cause me, because you say that being by my side overwhelms you.
You say you love me, but you have to breathe and not be that close, that said that love doesn’t have to be shown being everywhere with me, and these comments hurt and hurt me as if you were leaving me, without leaving me completely. For me, love does everything and everything, for you and for you.
- This emotional dependence that makes me come back to you despite the pain is something that I know can be changed.
- But it is difficult to accept that my way of loving is not the most appropriate.
- It is also difficult to accept that love does not manifest itself.
- Paying attention to one person all the time.
- But who manifests himself with the confidence you have in the other when you are not by your side.
You’re everything to me and I can’t live without you, I diluted myself with the idea of being together and now I don’t know how to be myself, it’s just us.
Not everything was wrong when we started. At first, it was like the gentle breeze that appears on spring afternoons, the one that caresses the skin trembles and soothes us in your presence. Soft, warm and comfortable, it was like being in his presence.
I quickly stuck to you as if my survival depended on it, you were my world and I stopped doing other things to always be by your side, I didn’t take a step without thinking about what you’d say before and manipulated me like I was a puppet. You had the rudder on your hands and I was just thinking that if I did everything you said, if I did everything for you, no pirate would attack our ship.
I needed you as much as the air I breathe, and I drowned in tears thinking that without you my life doesn’t make sense.
But one day everything changed and you started asking me for more space, saying I was suffocating you, you didn’t ask me to depend on you that way, but it was the only way I knew how to love.
But the wind became stormy and shook the sea; jealousy and censorship began. Anger and fear, I didn’t want to lose you, even though I knew that my way of loving consumed me inside, so I asked for help and understood what emotional addiction was and how I could prevent it from happening to me again. I learned that to love is to be free and to trust each other, and I was able to re-entrust myself in us.
“I wish you were always that woman, the one who never stops even with the worst storms, the one who knows herself better than anyone else and doesn’t care what they think. I hope you are always the owner of your life, and that if the world leaves you , you can find company in your arms. I wish you would never change the way you were just to please, and if one day you try to hide, will happiness always find you? – Kelbin Torres-
No one needs to depend on anyone to be happy. This is true both inside and outside of relationships, as emotional dependence not only occurs with the partner, but can also occur with family or friends. Therefore, working on the following can help build healthy relationships:
These steps can help prevent the wind from turning into a storm in your relationships. Because to love yourself first, and if you don’t know how to do it, psychology can help. Ask for help when you need it.