Every moment I share with someone is part of my journey, my story and, by the way, me. Everything others bring me builds me and transforms the pieces that make me who I am today.
Every story I’ve been involved in has left a mark on me one way or another, I still remember some, others were forgotten, but they all influenced who I am now, so if I could change something from the past or make other decisions, it wouldn’t be the same because everything that happened to me brought me here.
We are every decision we make, every story we live in, and we’re part of the people we share our time with.
Just because everyone who goes through my life leaves footprints doesn’t mean it will always be nice and positive, sometimes I’ll have the opportunity to walk alongside someone who will bring me a lot, but other times I can find someone I won’t want to include in my path and from whom I won’t always have the opportunity to distance myself.
One way or another, everything that happens to me will be part of my growth, whether it’s positive experiences and magical encounters or negative and unpleasant inadequations, everything that happens makes all the difference and influences my story, even the negative things, because without them, I wouldn’t know what I don’t want in my life.
The most important thing is how I will add each experience to my story, what I will do with what happens to me and how will I join these events Do I have to adapt and grow?Or, on the contrary, do I stand still and let myself sink, what perspective do I see?This last question is very important, because if I let myself be defined by each critic I will end up in pieces, if I absorb only the good and the positive I will live an unreality, but if, on the contrary, Achieving a balance between the two options, I will be able to discover my authenticity.
All this leads me to believe that knowing that I am a cluster of stories, moments and people, I am the owner of the pieces and the opportunity to organize them to create the best version of myself, so I will try to give it a special touch. place to anything that makes me feel better, and the rest I’ll learn to use to be stronger and realize that’s what makes me unhappy, if possible at some point, to help others achieve it as well.
Also, over time I have been able to understand that every time I meet someone or find myself in a new situation, I discover a part of me that was previously completely unknown. The relationships I establish with others show me more about who I am than about them. The same goes for new and different situations! It’s a wonderful thing and so hard to assimilate that at first it can even scare you.
“Everything that happens to us, if we assimilate it properly, leads us to ourselves. -Carl Jung-
Then I don’t regret anything. Neither the decisions I made nor the decisions I left behind, because everything I went through was part of my path, and although I have two options: making mistakes living like I did in the past and taking my time trying to solve the impossible. or learn to integrate my mistakes as one more chapter of my story and keep writing new parts, I always choose the latest, because I prefer to be who I am now (a composition of stories), I prefer to choose the color with which I will write in my own way.