Reading a brief and exciting article by Leila Guerriero in the newspaper, I came across the main core of this reflection: love is over, and when it is over, it tears the one who still feels; However, over time, we are forced to heal. and try again.
We match the pain of emotional blows with falls because they knock us down, hurt us, disorient us and we believe that we are losing the strength that we have, so any failure, misunderstanding or failure scares us so much: as a result, He understands that many voids open up in the body and that no one else can fill them again.
- However.
- Everything must be tried again.
- And love is no exception: what causes the most suffering is not this dull noise.
- But to stay on the beaten ground.
- You can and must shake the dust of disaster.
- Dry your tears and sew your heart: do it.
- Don’t give up.
- Don’t give up.
More difficult than the end itself, whether by biological or sentimental factors, it may refuse to interpret what is happening to us: it is not easy to recognize that we are at a point where we must react to move forward. to do so, even if you don’t believe it, and when you do, the grieving process will take its course until you feel good.
Taking charge of the situation we find ourselves in is usually not easy if not, but it is a price to pay to dazzle with new opportunities: awakening from the fragile sleepwalking in which one finds onesem immersed and facing the fear of acceptance. It’ll cost you a lot less effort and I’m definitely guaranteed it’ll be worth it.
“Nothing is lost if you have the courage to proclaim that everything is lost,” and if we think about it, overcoming any emotional loss means a state of courage to recognize the reality that afflicts us. Having enough claw to observe a ray of light in such a shadow will help us get closer.
On many occasions, we are not aware that the word grief is not only related to the death of a loved one, but also to the emotional, cognitive and physiological shock that loss generates. In the case of a romantic relationship, the steps we follow. through are the same as in other cases, and their duration depends on each person:
After the adaptation phase corresponding to the duel process for love as a couple, you will be prepared to try other ways: this arduous journey will teach you to learn alone, learn from mistakes and, above all, give you the best clues. to realize you’ll be happy. It is beneficial that we mention here the virtue of loving oneself to love and be loved again.
In this way, you will give yourself one more chance and offer an opportunity to those who arrive with the intention of staying to improve their world: you deserve these treats, you deserve this affection, it is true that there may be setbacks, but it will no longer hurt: you will look in amazement at the past, with a face of passage that only has a great warrior.
For all the suffering that love has caused, do not let such a beautiful feeling be tainted by this bad experience: we were born to love and, although unfortunately it hurts, it has nothing to do with pain. Let yourself know your best version with a new love Then, if you are really ready, do not let your fears stop you: let it go, let it grow, and if you fail, you will always try.