We have forgotten our place in the world. We are afraid of not meeting the expectations of others, of not finding the love of our life, of not succeeding, of not achieving our goals, of not being born, of growing up and reproducing ourselves.
In short, we submit to what others expect of us. We have reached a point where we do not know how to respect ourselves or how to behave. We don’t know how to emphasize all the wonderful things in us.
- “Did they make us believe this? Great love only happens once.
- Usually at 30.
- However.
- We were not told that love does not shoot and that it does not arrive by appointment.
They made us believe that each of us is half orange and that life only makes sense when we find our other half. We have not been told that we were already born complete and that no one has to take responsibility for completing what we lack.
They made us believe in a formula called “two in one”: two people who think and act in the same way. We weren’t told he had a name: “Cancellation,” and that only people with their own personality can have a healthy relationship. They have made us believe that marriage is obligatory and that desires beyond that sphere must be suppressed.
They made us believe that beautiful and thin ones are more loved. That there is only one formula for happiness, the same for all; those who flee are doomed to marginalization.
We have not been told that these formulas are wrong, that they frustrate people, alienate them, and that we can try many other alternatives.
No one will tell you, everyone will have to find out for themselves and then, when you’re really in love with yourself, you can be very happy and fall in love with someone.
Do we live in a world where we hide to make love, even though violence is practiced in broad daylight?
John Lennon
Do I love myself?Before he says “I love you,” will it strengthen your love?
Remember that without you you can’t do anything, can’t you live, breathe, smile or fall in love? This obvious and simple reasoning is behind a premise that should guide our life: take care of ourselves and, if necessary, help others to take care of themselves.
That is, little or nothing we achieve by giving up our lives, our courage and our routine to others to be happy, this does not mean that we should stop worrying about others, but that we must strike a balance and not forget the importance of building. our own personal growth.
“If love were a tree, the roots would be self-love. The more you love yourself, the more fruit will your love give to others and more lasting in time?
Walter Riso
Increasing our personal care is not easy, but it is worth it. After all, when we talk about love, we all win. For this to happen, we must take care of our roots by watering our tree; it’s the only way to make it big and strong.
When you, me inside? It fails, everything around you also fails. You can’t give everything to others and be empty inside; causes an unbearable sense of desolation.
Then first fall in love with yourself; take care of yourself and grow. To love life so that you can love fully, without being too attached to anything, that is, the goal is to cultivate your happiness so that you can share it. If you look at your tree and take good care of it every day, its fruits will grow healthy and full of positive energy.
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