Living on the other side of what a large part of society considers normal has a very high price, are additional difficulties and barriers that come mainly from the social level, from which we all feed, but some of which collect only poisoned water. A staple, disguised as food, that only produces frustration, pain and distortion of identity. Gordophobia is one of the phenomena that occurs in people who do not have a low body mass index (BMI).
Fat has other concepts, modules, or nodes associated with little or nothing positive. Intuition or prejudice born out of the interest of those who seek only a market to enrich themselves. Companies looking for other people to fill their pockets or just to feel better in comparison.
- Many people.
- When they see someone with a higher BMI than is considered desirable.
- They also see it.
- They anticipate an unmet person.
- They make this assumption unknowingly.
- Assume or assume that this is the reality.
- On the other hand.
- You also often make the mistake of assuming that they lack willpower: enough not to eat certain foods or go to the gym.
This egocentric look is reinforced by the reinforcement that it provides, seeing ourselves or positioning ourselves in this vision gives us a very positive image of ourselves: if we have willpower, if we take care of ourselves ?, that’s why we have a lower BMI. It is assumed that the other does not like his own body and that, if he does not want to change it, it is because his will is very fragile and his mind is very weak when faced with the temptation of a fast food.
It is much easier to assume this line of thought than for the other to be so because he wants it; then we should ask ourselves whether all these sacrifices we make are aimed at achieving something we really want as well. Moreover, it is much easier to assume that they cannot change, if they so desire, by will. This thought fuels the idea that we are in control of our bodies and that by doing “the right things” we will never be fat. But is the reality very different?
On the other hand, the reaction that many obese people provoke when they occur is compassion and sadness. Similar to that experienced by people who share a disease. Instead of saying “Happy to meet you,” we often talk, perhaps more naturally, “I’m sorry?”Are you capable?. We want to introduce you to the knowledge that we all have and that at one point in his life managed to get rid of many kilos and was not the victim of a rebound effect.
Fatophobia, in phobias, is particularly limiting, involves rejecting or fighting something that is ours, against a part of us with which we cannot avoid living, trying to do that would hurt us and mean sorry to stop living. few try to follow this path: they dissocian or ignore their bodies, as if they tried not to pay attention to the well-known charlatan who recently or nothing, no wonder he speaks.
Along the way, the price you pay is very high, these people are isolated from the signs of the body, does the pain alert them afterwards?With the consequences that this phenomenon can have on the medical field?And anything unpleasant that comes from the body is associated with obesity. The beginning and the end of it all.
On the other hand, many obese people with fatophobia give up pleasant activities, such as playing sports, a day at the pool or a long swim. It’s not like someone sees them; You want to stop seeing each other, cover up a body they can’t stand?Even more so in the face of nudity.
They stop living in the company of his body, in symbiosis with him, and make his life a scenario that always has this battle in the background. Often, a struggle inspired by adopted desire and enforced censorship, punishable by a critical finger that is rarely combined with compassion, understanding, and affection.