When I was a kid, every time I laughed well, I could hear my mother say, “He who laughs a lot ends up crying. “And it happened inevitably, either by coincidence or by prophecy. And so, throughout my life, whenever I was very happy, I waited for the moment when it would all end, when all the joy was covered with a sad event, as if I were afraid of happiness.
Why get used to this culture that happiness is ephemeral, that we don’t deserve so much, that something sad is going to happen, as if it were not possible to be, in fact, totally and intensely happy?
- It seems that we were born with a negative balance.
- As if our existence in this world were a kind of payment.
- Pity for all the badly resolved that it takes with us some time.
- Somewhere.
- And so.
- Every time we find ourselves happy and realized.
- We act as if we do not deserve all this happiness.
- Attracting negative energies.
- Negative thoughts and pessimistic attitudes that lead us to a sad end.
Was it supposed to be like this, or did we make it?
We mistakenly believe that happiness exists 24 hours a day for some people, that there are those who live in the best style of “commercial margarine”, which causes us frustration, pain, suffering, anguish and prevents us from valuing. the moment when happiness comes and becomes present.
Happiness is made of moments, like any other feeling, no one is constantly sad, no one cries all day, thirty days a month, no one is constantly irritated, these are moments. It is the value we give to these moments that makes them large or small, eye-catching or irrelevant.
When happiness comes, when you want to urinate after so much smiling, when your heart doesn’t fit in your chest so happyly with good news, when you live a dream with someone nice, loving, don’t be afraid of the end of it all.
Live intensely the moment that deserves to be lived and wait patiently for the bad times to pass.
One day, somewhere, a sage said that “nothing is permanent in this ephemeral world, not even our problems. “So I think my mother was right when she said that those who laugh a lot end up crying, because moments come and go, like everything in life. But knowing that I’m going to cry at some point can’t and shouldn’t be an obstacle to smiling, smiling a lot and gloating for joy and happiness when I arrive.
Tomorrow, the future is God’s!