Fear the mess

There are a number of fears behind disorder, carelessness in the organization of things is much more than lack of time or carelessness, the environment or the external context ends up being a projection of our inner world, so disorder also communicates a lot on its own.

Disorder is almost always associated with another phenomenon: accumulation, when there is little space is barely cluttered, however, when we accumulate several objects, we need more time to put them back in place, clean them or open a space. so they don’t interfere.

“The disorder is more likely because there are a multitude of forms of disorder. “Murray Gell Mann

At the same time, without realizing it, we tend to concentrate chaos in certain spaces of the house, it also has a meaning, which is almost always related to a form of fear, let’s see what those fears are behind the disorder. that, let’s look at the phenomenon of accumulation.

Accumulation is the first step towards disorder. It sounds trivial, but it’s actually a very revealing expression of what we carry in us, there are basically two types of accumulation: the old and the current one.

The old accumulation concerns all these objects that are supposed to have great value to us, so we have decided to preserve them, even if sometimes we do not have the space to do so, when there is something deeper, you end up storing objects that do not have significant value.

The current accumulation, on the other hand, refers to all those everyday objects that we use, but that we don’t put back in place, clothes, toiletries, toys, papers or anything else that we leave out of place and then leave it. We didn’t find time to organize, so we formed a lot of things without harmony.

The accumulation of both types also reflects the fears behind disorder; in the case of an ancient accumulation, it is the fear of leaving the past behind; there is fear of taking on the new and leaving the old, and instead of accepting that, a sense of security is built. In today’s accumulation, what exists is dissatisfaction with something that is happening in the present and that we are afraid to face.

As we explained above, the places where chaos is concentrated speak of the fears behind the disorder, it is not the same as having many objects stacked in the kitchen or scattered throughout the living room.

Let’s look at the main meanings of this

If a relationship of disorder and fear is established it is because, in this case, the objects fulfill the role of ‘smokescreen’ or barrier that is used to hide. What are they hiding? Peurs. La disorganization is an expression of a desire to hide or lose sight of.

Other fears behind clutter can also focus on furniture; if disorder is concentrated at the table or workplace, it represents a frustration and a hidden desire to want to control everything; if everything is hidden under the furniture, it indicates a fear of the opinion of others.

Beyond any sense, the truth is that constant disorder is something that can become an obstacle, from time to time it is good to let go what can be left behind, it is also good to clean our spaces periodically. better to walk lighter and clean up everything that hinders our mobility.

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