Imma Puig, a degree in clinical psychology and a professor in the human resources department of IESE, has been managing the egos, desires and jealousy of Barcelona footballers Futebol Clube for 15 years and we are eye-catching a statement: feelings do not include checkbook.
Inma Puig is dedicated to taking care of the people inside. It is divided between Iniesta, Messi and Suárez. De moment, surrounded by people who earn in a year what the rest of mortals cannot gain in a lifetime, understood that the current account does not affect the management of emotions.
- To see how many things happen in personal relationships.
- We need to understand people.
- And for that.
- In addition to climbing a mountain.
- There are two paths: one long and easy.
- One short and difficult.
- Jealousy.
- Envy.
- Anger.
- And sadness don’t include checkbooking.
- They don’t understand personal relationships.
- They don’t understand emotional control and learning.
“I hope everyone can get rich and famous and have everything they dreamed of, so they realize that’s not the answer. -Jim Carrey-
We live in a society where there can be many people for which everything is always “phenomenal”. We want to convey an image that escapes any emotional logic, because these vicissitudes (money, beauty, health and love) rarely occur at the same time False happiness is the worst of pains.
Many people turn to psychological counseling because, while everything is going well, they feel sad: they point to a void from which they cannot locate the origin, many of them also do not know that sadness is part of life and that it has survived centuries of life. evolution because it fulfills its function, on the contrary, there are also people who do not have a perfect life or a cowardly current account and who are far from feeling that unidentified need.
In this sense no one, whatever their money, can always be happy and trouble-free, often the opposite happens, the more money you have, the more problems arise, in this sense, true success can be in the realization of what is desired and happiness in the desire for what has been achieved.
Happiness is a stopping point between too little and too much, between too little and too much. Feelings don’t include checkbooking.
Make no mistake, having a good current account helps, but if the human being sees his basic needs met, he prefers to feel loved than paid.
There are people who are on the crest of the wave, who are more?for many, who succeed, but share several painful circumstances with those who do not do so well, such as the loss of a loved one. These people are also sad, lonely, discouraged or even depressed.
Feelings are not part of checkbook and, to prove it, you only have to look at people who have large fortunes to see that money does not prevent the onset of psychological and/or emotional problems. In fact, the number of famous characters who will end up suffering great discomfort, despite their wealth, is very high.
The idea that fame and money are accompanied by happiness is called into question when considering the number of wealthy celebrities who have suffered from depression or other mood disorders, in this sense, have a current account that many would dream of, but emotions do not achieve a good emotional balance. In many cases, you can even assume otherwise: much more emotional instability. As you can see, feelings don’t include checkbooking.
The idea that money, fame and power bring happiness is increasingly questioned.