At a time of women’s empowerment, it is inevitable to look at world history. The woman has always had a hidden power. We know that throughout history we have lost and gained space over and over again, sometimes we stay in the shade, in others as the main hall, today we want to walk with men in all walks of life. they need to compete, just conquer our space. Research shows that women study more, read more, lead better, spend 25% of their time on invisible jobs (taking care of the house) and earn less than men, although they are often more competent.
Culturally, we have been conditioned to take care of the family or choose careers as a teacher, HR, doctor, nurse. There are very few women in engineering, technology, politics. And those who are there suffer terrible prejudices.
- What surprises me most is that it is we women who educate the sexists of the world.
- How do we allow that to happen?Work is one of the many dilemmas of women.
- How can you be a woman who keeps up her women’s business.
- Takes care of her family and always works at the same time?First.
- We must deconstruct this work myth.
- In the 21st century.
- And in the digital age.
- Part-time and remote jobs are becoming more common.
- So we no longer need to choose 8 a.
- M.
- Jobs.
- 6 p.
- M.
- And spend all day away from our children.
- The world is open and the possibilities are endless for all of us.
- Women of all ages can return to the workforce as counselors.
- Mentors.
- Self-employed.
- Entrepreneurs or females.
No more days of choosing between personal life and work: today you can do anything without losing quality of life or balance. There is a group of women who join the world of work on an equal footing with men. age groups, some are women who have stopped forming their family to focus on their careers, others who have opted for the opposite option AND those who balance the two problems into a stable balance.
It’s always necessary, even if it’s not for money. This is necessary because work nourishes the human being, connects him with social systems and with life. The biggest depressants are people who are unemployed, unemployed, or retired. Bitterness, depression and under me. -feelings are common problems. I recently observed two women: a long-retired woman, a beautiful life, but today she suffers from depression because she is lonely and because deep down she is not at the service of anything but herself. a large national laboratory. Entrepreneur, worker, has built a memorable job, works every day, married at 64 and has light and joy of her own.
Culturally, we are encouraged to take care of all those around us: parents, brothers, friends, children, husband . . . if there’s room, and of course there’s not enough room, we have time for ourselves. One day, you realize, it’s been a few years, and when you look in the mirror you see an image you don’t recognize. We get bigger, we have wrinkles, skin imperfections, less hair and a void that resonates in our minds: “What am I done with my life?Few decide to change course by now, most go into depression and stay with it for a long time. As an emergency exit, some women re-occupy the space of an adult child’s mother. Because they don’t have their own current story, they fit into someone else’s story, trying to be useful and feel happy.
Taking care of the house and children for a while is legitimate. We know that babies are hard work and many tasks are even feminine, but modern husbands are helping. We’re the leaders of the house. The problem is to give up 100% of working life and not get back to the subject on time. Always based on the stories of the real stories of my work, I realize that women who do not produce professionally end up losing the interest of their husbands and even their children. The home theme does not generate curiosity, intellectual challenge, abundant exchange.
As much as we devote ourselves to social work, it is not enough to cover a need that all human beings have: to be useful to the world, precious to society, capable of offering our talent to produce something relevant, that impacts other people that not only our family. Husbands and children are not proud in the long term of women who are dedicated solely to domestic or family life. In the medium term, these decisions make women suffer.
We need to think about our attitude to life, we do not need to become what we are not, but we must know that every human being has in him an incessant desire to evolve, evolve means interacting with others, teaching, learning, giving, receiving, learning, developing skills and being able to monetize using our talents. Women’s independence depends on the woman herself, who is often afraid of the world, has perfection syndrome, works to be recognized as a superwoman, but deep down she believes she is less capable than she really is. We all have space in the world and we can be excellent professionals, great wives, good mothers and daughters, and an important part of society.
Build a complete and complete person. Take care of everyone, but take care of yourself in the same proportion. Her greatest job is not to rest, please others, take the children to school and prepare her husband’s dinner. Life needs you. Use your power and talent for the world. For women, we make a difference in all the environments we visit.