We live in a social moment where we spend time taking care of our appearance, in many cases we do so with the aim of projecting an image that makes us attractive, desired, not sexually, but to be seen as a pleasant person. partner and someone who contributes to any social circle we are a part of.
To do this, we focus a lot on feeling beautiful and attractive on the outside, leaving aside our interior development, in this way we achieve a dissonance between the image we project and our personality, a contradiction that always generates a point of discomfort and that the other usually notices.
- Behind this attitude lies also a widespread idea that literature.
- Film or television were responsible for its popularity; this belief states that the person capable of generating a certain aura of mystery seems more attractive; the idea is based on the fact that the unknown naturally attracts us and that we like surprises.
- So science wanted to challenge that logic and that’s what we’re going to go through next.
A scientific study by the National Academy of Sciences of Peru has revealed that people are attracted to who is most emotionally “easy to read”. The results indicate that there are much less attractive people who retain an air of mystery, condition the expression of their emotions and are difficult to decipher.
The study researchers asked a group of people to look at photos of six different women and men, then told them to try to guess what emotions these people felt when photographed while also asking them to assess their appeal. .
The results revealed that women and men who did not express themselves much or who kept that aura of mystery were not so attractive to the study of the participants who looked at the photos, the conclusion that can be drawn is that the more expressive a person is and the simpler it is to guess their emotion, the more attractive we find it.
The truth is that, despite this study, it doesn’t mean that you have to keep a little mystery, or that you’re less attractive simply because you’re an uns impressive person. The most important thing, in terms of interior and personal growth, is to express our emotions in a healthy way.
Our expressions allow us to live and feel realized as the extraordinary human beings we are, besides, now you know that your emotions make you more attractive to the people around you and to yourself, remember that the balance in the expression of yourself is always The most appropriate, which allows us to define our own limits and not adopt an exaggerated expression in front of others , thus avoiding blockages in terms of healthy personal relationships.
Thus, we can conclude that as much as physical appearance makes us healthier, the fact that we are emotionally intelligent also gives us a great advantage. Perhaps mystery can help a relationship maintain the spark that sparked at first. Encuentro, science tells us that we will be more attractive if we express ourselves openly and if we show our emotions.