I imagine that many times you no longer wanted to follow your intuition because you were the guide that took you into the abyss and disappointment, so going further many times you realize that your mistrust has a lot to do with the disappointments you have. experienced throughout his life.
When the results don’t match what we expect in all social relationships, we get a clear experience. Sometimes we can’t predict everything. Sometimes we’ll be wrong, and sometimes we’ll make it, even if we don’t want to, because doing it right isn’t always a matter of luck.
- So many times.
- Our intuition will be correct.
- I knew it.
- I told you!When our intuition is based on what happens in reality.
- We are satisfied.
- Satisfied with our fast and excellent compass for its low cost.
- We can finally predict some results.
- Not everything is adrift and not everything is lost.
Try to imagine for a moment how you felt when your intuition failed. She didn’t walk in a straight line. He tripped and fell. You saw her on the floor and wondered what had happened. You were very safe and now, all of a sudden, you’re lying on the ground. How is that possible?
When our intuition fails, a part of us feels powerless. With a whimsical compass that ignores the north (and south, east and west), in a sometimes unpredictable world, we are not sure to walk, especially when looking for the authentic Relationships, where the truth is sought to prevail. Relationships where the other can sometimes be an instrument, but it never ceases to be an end. Looking for a way to return the true and the authentic.
That’s where disappointment comes in. The blow of reality. The slap in our “ingenuity. ” But don’t consider yourself naive because you trust that part of you that reasoned too fast without telling you how, don’t even think you’re a fool because you’re going to do it again, just think there are disappointments. They’re part of the rules of the game, you, and the mechanisms you use to make decisions. Yes, they’ll never be perfect.
Not everything is predictable because, for everything, or at least for the most part, we have partial information, on the other hand, our resources are limited and overloaded when data or possibilities abound, finally, when we wait for or interpret reality, In our minds operate a series of filters or prejudices. One of these filters has to do with our willingness to believe, especially when we are happy, that we live in a just world, or at least more than it really is.
We believe, or sometimes we want to believe, that good things will happen to the right people and that bad things will happen to the wrong people. Some kind of silent justice or karma. Something like getting what we deserve. However, this thought that influences our mental life is often not fulfilled: it is a rule with many exceptions.
Sometimes life shows its claws and reminds us of what it really is: unpredictable; at least more unpredictable than it would be if an axiom like that of the righteous world worked, in this sense there is no intuition capable of predicting certain results, we are convinced that this person will be fair to us and behave according to his values. We put all our faith into it and suddenly we find ourselves in a great disappointment.
It is not what it claims to be. Or at least, at that very moment, he did something that completely destroyed us, caught us off guard. Keep it low, just when we start to trust blindly, life hits us. Our hearts break. Our illusion is shattered before our eyes, we stopped and realized that the barn had become unstable, that the gray now looks gray black and white, it is as if we were getting on a boat in the middle of a strong storm, it is in those moments when this courage is seen as necessary, when it is difficult to step foot on the bridge safely and continue working.
We are talking about the student who has just studied and failed, the person who has been in a relationship in which she has been abused, the daughter who saw her mother die suddenly, the man who has been silent when she was told that her son The Heart has stopped and will not strike again. We are talking about a city that has suffered a terrorist attack by those who believe that life may be second in a hypothetical hierarchy.
Intuition begins to work especially when it is able to recognize patterns, so we can more easily predict the behavior of the people we know, in its performance it is able to produce unpleasant sensations, but also very pleasant, in addition, it can act. like an inner voice that says, “Run, start!” Stop now!?.
So, if life has surprised you with a painful and unexpected betrayal, don’t blame your intuition, sometimes we just can’t predict everything, we don’t live in a just world where every letter is marked.
But we can build our own little world, being authentic and true. When someone is authentic, they are considered reliable and predictable. We’ll always know what to expect from that person. It will be your choice (and yours alone) to have it in your way or not, so don’t blame your intuition for failure, because error is part of our nature.