It’s getting harder and harder to believe in people and feelings that are so real as they last and soon seem to be changing, disappointment, deception and frustration hurt, and many, mainly because at some point you put your whole soul there, thinking it was someone and not you who filled it with life.
But you think what you thought wouldn’t change, I’d change, so this person you had blind faith in proves that neither she was infallible, nor that you could see clearly with your eyes open, in fact, you realize that disappointment is the result. of this blindness of waiting too long for others and partly forgetting their responsibility.
- Over time we realize that disappointments can be many.
- With the same people or with different people.
- It also depends on the relationship and the severity of the situation: for example.
- There are disappointments that hurt but do not kill.
- And others that hurt so much that there is only room for a farewell.
- Or maybe not even that.
Life is a constant movement to get carried away
The point is that we are rational humans, but also emotional humans: the mind controls the steps and yet it is sensitivity, empathy and love that decide the course, that is why people get excited about the people they know: they discover whether they trust or not, and if so, they build with them the foundations of a relationship full of expectations.
As confidence increases, so does the need for reciprocity: social circles are created close to us, where there is no place to think that one will fail with the other.
However, we would not be able to write about it if it did not exist: there comes a time when enthusiasm and confidence can fade somewhere, if more than one person has suffered or if the blow has been very strong, the likelihood of a new disappointment creates fear. and lack of enthusiasm to try again.
In the event that one person defrauds another, a bond is cut that seemed unwavering and the disappointed person feels lame; in fact, if the mistake made has no solution, the person enters a slow process of rebuilding the self-esteem and values on which he will depend. a lot about each person’s personality.
Disappointment should be classified as a melee weapon;
can you easily cross your heart. ?
-Anonymous-
Betrayals and disappointments can resurface braver and less naive: disappointment is a turning point that forces you to take charge of the situation to leave with your head up and your heart full of strength.
However, it must be said that every disappointment comes the time of oblivion, although we must first go through the filter of forgiveness: this occurs when one gives enough respite for pain to heal and leave the experience strengthened. , leaving behind and continuing the lesson of suffering.
Faced with complicated obstacles such as disappointment, it is good to take care of yourself: ventilate if necessary, go out with other friends to emphasize that it is always worth believing, occupy the mind with distracting activities, take advantage to know each other more and see is able to understand that each step has its moment.
? The hardest part
is to get
go away completely
All of this
Who’s gone?
-Marwan-
You have to forgive to think about individual well-being: disappointments are not fair to anyone, but they serve to teach the more human side of mistakes and learn from them.