Do we know it’s very difficult to take the advice? Forget the past?And keep not looking back. Opening up enough to fully immerse yourself in a new relationship is already difficult, can you imagine accepting that it’s over?That’s why many people prefer to keep suffering: they fear the consequences
Have you ever stopped to discuss the risks of being unhappy like this?When I get carried away by thoughts like, “What if I don’t find someone else?”Or “And if I repent later” you’ll just hold on more and more, without moving.
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- It is very difficult to give up what we know and we have rated ourselves in a certain way.
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- Leaving the doors of the past open prevents us from focusing on the really important thing of the present.
If you spend the rest of your life on a foot in this relationship that died a long time ago, you won’t pay attention to this crazy kid to meet you did you ever think this could be all you were looking for?
The same goes for every aspect of your life, when you waste your time crying for that friend who let you down, you end up not enjoying the company of other important people in your life, closing doors and leaving behind the past, where it belongs, gives you the opportunity to pursue your own dreams and focus on other goals.
Keeping this hope that everything will be the same again is a big mistake. Okay, the past may have been great and gave us incredible emotions, but you can’t keep the memories. After all, there are also many good things. in the future.
Waiting for you and a very old friend to be close again, for example, it doesn’t help, it grows, it changes its look, move to another city and take advantage of all the opportunities that come your way. Don’t be afraid and Don’t think you should pamper the one who’s left.
You can’t spend your whole life waiting for someone who left without giving an explanation, or waiting for someone to appreciate you if they don’t even respond when you call today. One day, repentance can even strike the conscience of others, but what if it never happens?Will you be waiting or will that be enough in the first place?
It is said that people who lived in the past are overrun by depression, if you think about it, it is true. When we live in remembrance, we end up forgetting what we have and also what we might have.
That is why it is so important and fundamental to close the doors of the past, no one wants to live surrounded by nostalgia and miss what happened, remembering our origins is fundamental to keeping our feet on the ground, but we must pay attention to the present.
Enjoy what you have, laugh with those on your side and plan for the future. There is no point in acting differently. The worst that can happen to you is that in ten years you will be a sad person because you regret not having lived fully, forget about the past and you will not regret it.
Are you the kind of person who doesn’t cut off relationships with someone just because it can help you get where you want to be?That may be true, but have you ever wondered if this person is really ready to get their hands dirty for maybe he doesn’t even consider you a friend anymore!
Also, you may be involved in things you’re not interested in at all. Keeping relationships intact may seem like a good idea, but you’ll only be full of obligations that will over time turn into a nightmare.
We have created the habit of leaving all the doors of the past open. We think it’s best to just simmer things and use them as a Plan B, just in case. Suddenly, maybe this friend needs my help? -Does my boyfriend start to like me overnight? Maybe they’ll change their mind and hire me for this job, etc.
But the truth is that we cannot live expecting better circumstances, when we cannot see a future for this situation we must end it and that is it, forget about the past and you are ready to move towards your future.