“Lend me your eyes, I want to know your world. ” Once, during a June party in my childhood, I received a note containing these precious words. This, at first, seemed like a compliment, in a pre-analysis of the child according to my lived youth.
It was at my tender age of 12, tyinglescent, that I gave the first unforgettable kiss, unforgettable because it was terrible, but I will never forget it.
- But this phrase.
- Which I analyzed today with a more advanced age and with maturity entering the house without asking my prior permission.
- Has become quite significant.
We will be eager to discover what goes beyond appearances, taking as a characteristic the beautiful pairs of eyes, where the true meaning would be hidden, depending on the consequence of what happens inside.
I see this past moment as a compliment to myself, although in those moments, the person who sent me the note was only intended to woo me, different from what I am doing today, deepening the intentionality of this phrase than, in my opinion. opinion, it’s so profound and meaningful.
We know that when we look deeply at someone, we will be attentive to what shows more than the outer insert presented by a person.
Looking deeply into each other’s eyes, it is up to us to look at what is happening within a soul. Meet someone? It’s looking at someone without judgment, if we have good character.
Yes, many of us tend to judge people by the things that present the outside world, we notice if it is small, if it is tall, if it is beautiful, if it is ugly, and many times we make the mistake of judging the one and only by the appearance it shows, that it would often not correspond to the character that this person might have in his most intimate roots.
We judge not only by our moral weakness, but because we have been conditioned to do so.
Because simply the society around us is bellicose and competitive, because we have to judge someone to try to feel superior to this or that and beltran, and it’s usually a big flashback.
We cannot judge people by their appearance, and even if we judge someone by their faults, by possible slips committed, we cannot forget that we are human and that, in the past, we were also worthy of the judgment of others.
Because, as musician and composer Renato Russo said
“Anyone who insists on judging others always has something to hide.
So why would all this judgment, based on the inability to be kind and generous, be too much to dream of appreciating a world of equality and harmony among people?
Do you feel better than your travel companion?
If not, why try?
Know that we are endowed with innate skills and that the ability to look blindfolded, to have a pure and unleashed look at depressed emotions will make us gain enormous weight.
What lies behind the judgments may be the very projection of our shadow reflected in the universe that constitutes the other, that is, we try to hide the outside world and ourselves with the faults derived from possible traumas of children.
Let’s do an auto-analysis right now and carefully observe our behavior. Our instructions can tell much more about us than about your partner who lives next door.
Let us take care of our garden, we can take care of our edges, so that no shadow reflected on our dark side falls into the error of judging others.
Because:
“No one is born hating another person because of the color of their skin, their origin or even their religion. To hate, people need to learn, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love. Nelson Mandela?
Judgments are projections, let’s be aware of that
Once we recognize the possible villains in the story, we will be clearer and more willing to look at each other without masks, masks that insist on hiding the truth.
The great truth is that we are all prone to mistakes and that we will be and always must be willing to acknowledge our failures. Our mistakes must contain the divine gift of transformation.
If everyone takes care of each other, we can live together in peace in society and together; We will be ready to embark and live in a better world, in which we will have a generous look with the companions of the struggles of this life, helping them to project our inner balance, which will wisely reflect the possible changes, as when we were vehemently crucified to be simply blind and unable to see, where we have not seen that other, where perhaps we could see our darker side, confusing the reality presented.
We can never be transmutative and revolutionary agents if we don’t enter our universe and don’t change in ourselves what we’re trying to change in the next one.
It is essential that we make our pieces, pieces that we have to modify and transform, we are the agents of change for ourselves.
We think about being able to transform a tangle of information around us, but mainly the mistakes that reside in us.
We are here to change the world and things, turning darkness into light, shadows into light and mistakes into translucent truths that will serve as a ship to house travelers eager to embark on the fertile world of constant and effective transformations, without judgment.