Even if we tell each day that resentment is a negative feeling, and that it wastes energy for no reason, we are not free to feel it at any given moment, focused on a memory that leads us to the feeling of gravity, pity and frustration of a dream that has been broken, of a shattered love, and so many other human feelings that make us feel hurt. Even if we do not want to, memories survive the days; after the pain, nothing is the same, and we will finally revive what once caused us pain.
Beyond the memories, of which we must not blame ourselves, we must understand that these are not things that we can erase simply because we want, we survive the days of abandonment, the days of pain, we pass, but we leave them in the heart when, on a gray autumn day, we feel nostalgia, when a scent of the day brings us happy memories, which everything seems to help. Do we forget what we’d like to forget?
- There is no page to pass that makes you forget everything.
- When the sunny day became a gray day.
- Even if time passes we can overcome the facts.
- As I said.
- But we will always remember them.
- There is no way to forget.
- But there is a way to live and overcome.
- Which is to forget without bitterness.
- When we assume that everything happens for a reason.
- Who no longer love us.
- That things change as people also change.
- That life follows its inexorable course.
- And that what was once may not be another.
- That we are all human and make mistakes.
- That things go beyond us and that we are replaceable in the heart or in someone’s life.
- We have to assume that forgiving is a way of forgetting?.
And that the expected day and always difficult to find, to be able to remember without feeling that the heart takes us in pain, or that anger makes us spoil the day, is really the day when we decide to leave, but not because of guilt. In fact go on but, yes, know how to forgive, leave the past in the past, get away from the grudge.
I remember many situations in which I was saddened and I bet that you also felt the same thing, one day my heart was shattered, the next I was betrayed, happy days seemed to lose color to the days that hurt me, but here is the miracle before me, making me think about the speed at which life passes, and that we do not have so much time to seek our happiness , that we use energy for him is a grudge giving us something that will serve our mission to live life?and that’s why it’s better to forgive. When we can do that, can we move on?
It’s not easy, but when the feeling comes back, you may think that the task will be simpler, that we can forget what is not a happy memory of the past, so forgiveness is always better to forget yesterday, to let go of the grudge. ?
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