Our quiet breathing will depend on this exit, on this break with the emotional vampires we thought were stupidly essential to our lives. Then it will take courage to adopt the right attitude towards the wrong people.
How much time we spend worrying about the wrong people, wasting energy on those who don’t deserve a minimum of consideration, with people who don’t care what we feel. One of the greatest victories we achieve throughout our lives is precisely power to free ourselves from the unnecessary bonds that bind us to people without benevolence towards anyone.
- Many times we keep close to us completely irrational friendships.
- Which only suck and ask without giving anything in return.
- So we call friends who do not understand the value of a sincere and reciprocal relationship.
- We live with someone who criticizes our way of being.
- Our clothes.
- Our attitudes.
- Putting ourselves in the background.
- Waiting for our research.
- But never taking the initiative to come to us.
Similarly, many of us struggle blindly to maintain a love that ended, just beginning, believing in all the lies we know to be lies, clinging to hopes that no longer exist, for staying with a couple who barely recognize us. as a person who lives, breathes, feels. We cry in vain, shout in deaf ears, greet blind eyes, increasingly putting distorted love on each other, while emptying ourselves from self-esteem.
Fortunately, it will never be too late to wake up, to start walking again in search of our lost identity, our crushed self-esteem, our emotional devastation, our survival will depend on this exit, this break with the emotional vampires we thought we were. stupidly essential to our lives. Then it will take courage to adopt the right attitude towards the wrong people.
Without them, we will move towards new dawns where we will be calmer and safer than who we do not want for our lives. We cannot lose hope of being happy with those who share love with the return journey, because that is what life should be, special moments with the right people.
In the end, walking in pain will make us even more eager to finally bring a warm and sincere affection. No more doubts. No more time.