There is no doubt that chance can create wonderful opportunities that make us find these soul mates, perfect beings, who show us a new path and other points of view.
They are souls who meet in an instant and come to share with us a brief fragment of time, months or even unforgettable years, however, like a castle of cards, everything is finally destroyed by the wind.
- You were.
- In your opinion.
- The perfect couple.
- But for several reasons.
- Everything was lost.
- One waiting for the other on the same platform of life.
- But with passages to different destinations.
Sometimes love alone is not enough to maintain a relationship, even if the other soul is a reflection of yours. Sometimes there are irreconcilable distortions and high costs, which are almost impossible to maintain. There are impossible loves that make us live perfect fragments, briefly. and intensely, but from the beginning come with an expiration date.
A life without risk is a life that is not lived. You may know from the beginning that some experiences can be costly, whether emotional or financial; You may also be aware that getting out of your comfort zone, from the known and safe, will bring you the uncertainty of “not knowing” and the risk of making not one, but several mistakes.
The risk is losing your balance, but each wrong step also teaches you to get up from the fall and walk more confidently. The same goes for our relationships, where no one has a manual on how to be perfect. No one enters into this, a world destined to be a true guru of love, free from suffering; therefore, it is worth considering these dimensions.
You may have thought that, in fact, there are soul mates, and that they never follow different directions because souls are the same and are meant to be together forever. don’t jump into anything without a parachute.
Perfect love does not exist, requires day-to-day work, facing the high costs of a relationship and requiring a lot of investment in time and effort, and yet sometimes love is not the only answer to all problems, nor the answer to all problems. all our doubts. It’s not even the bridge that will cover all our emotional deficiencies. There are great loves doomed to cause great suffering, reason?There are many: lack of understanding, selfishness, immaturity of one or both, different interests?
Fate we weeds wonderful opportunities to meet people who seem “perfect”, but sometimes love arrives with a very close expiration date. She is a companion soul with whom we share a certain time, enjoying every minute, every second. But always remember that your soul companion must be yourself; you must give yourself love and care every day, to keep your personal balance with every step you take.
Sometimes there is something in us that tells us that our relationship will not last long, that it will bring pain, that everything will be short and maybe even painful. So are we going to make a mistake if we take a chance? Certainly not.
It won’t be a long relationship, as you’ve already understood, but you need to set the boundaries and remember to protect your self-esteem. Love is an adventure worth living, and it is likely that if you decide to pass it off this opportunity, you will regret your whole life of not taking risks, having not run to the platform, addressing and embracing this person.
What happens next? Will it last a lifetime or will it end as soon as it feels more intense?It can even cause more suffering than happiness, but it’s all worth it. It’s life, it’s time to learn, time to vibrate, time to laugh and cry.
The pains you will have afterwards will heal day by day, but they could certainly be more painful because of the repentance of not having risked, for remembering a love that did not happen, is the book of our lives and, as such, we must write it every day.
There is no love without risk; the one who does not venture does not live, the one who does not strive does not see the reward. Although the relationship with ours? The soul mate may not last long, rest a guarantee that this love will be with you, forever in your memory.
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