There’s no doubt about it. Friends have many health benefits, it’s the family we choose. They have become, as out of nowhere, people who try to listen to us even if they have no answer to our concerns, share with us every feeling and every emotion, making our lives more colorful.
There are certainly friends and AMIS, there are people who know all our faults and who, despite themselves, stay by our side and love us well, could they share the blood with us?As brothers and cousins they can be great friends because of their presence in our lives, but who may not be.
- However.
- There is one very clear thing: there are friends who earn the title of life partners.
- They are our fortune.
- Our great treasure and thanks to them we keep our relational tree full of love.
There is a text by Jorge Luis Borges that perfectly illustrates the importance of friends in our lives, in this passage of the book?The tree of Life? It lists the types of friends we make throughout our lives:
“There are people in our lives who rejoice in the simple causality of crossing paths. Some walk the road beside us, watching many moons pass, but others we only see between one step and the other. We call them all friends and there’s a lot of guys. Maybe one of our friends will appear on every leaf of a tree.
The first one born from the seed is our father friend and our friendly mother, who show us what life is like, then come our fellow friends, with whom we share our space to flourish with us.
We have become familiar with the whole family of the holidays, whom we respect and desire good, but fate introduces us to other friends that we did not know would cross our path, many of them are called friends of the soul, of the heart. they’re sincere, they’re real. They know that when we’re okay, they know what makes us happy.
And sometimes one of these soul friends cracks in our hearts and ends up becoming a passion, begins to shine our eyes, music to our lips, heels at our feet, but there are also these friends who only stay for a while, maybe on vacation, or a few days or hours. They get used to the smile on our face for the short time we’re there.
Speaking of which, we cannot forget about distant friends, those who hide among the branches, and that when the wind blows, they always appear between one leaf of the other.
Time passes, summer is running out, autumn is coming and we have lost some of our leaves, some are born the other summer and others stay several seasons. But what makes us happier are the fallen but still present leaves, which nourish our roots with joy, are memories of wonderful moments when they crossed our path.
I wish you, my tree leaf, peace, love, health, luck and prosperity. Today and always? Simply because every person who goes through our life is unique, they always leave a little of themselves and take a little bit of us, there will be those who have taken too much, but there will also be those who have left nothing. it is the greatest responsibility of our lives and the obvious proof that two souls are not by chance.
Healthy relationships are based on respect and balance, they are implicit contracts that are stabilized by emotional and complicit exchanges with which we can open up and show ourselves exactly as we are.
It is wonderful to be aware of all that we can share with someone we love and who loves us.
Scientific studies have shown that emotional and social support protects us from disease development and promotes good evolution and protection, for example, from the recurrence of problems such as cancer.
So, knowing this, it’s obvious that the best thing that can happen to us in life is to find someone to laugh with, talk to and cry with. It’s gratifying to know that there’s someone who cares about us and is aware of what’s happening to us and what’s not happening to us.
So we don’t have to have many friends, but the most important thing is to have the best friends with us, we know how good it is to know that they love us and that we can count on real friends, who trust their fingers, because getting such a special affection is not something that happens so easily.