I’ve always believed that true friendship is one that lasts forever, but today I see it differently. Chaining a person to your life simply because if it is true, it must last is an act of selfishness with your life and the life of friendship.
As in any other relationship, changes occur and this can change a lot with the way we relate, values, desires, tastes, everything changes, and if people are not on the same frequency, the relationship runs out and doesn’t necessarily have to end. , but affinities go to other directions, we end up losing touch and even the desire to be together and share stories and moments.
- One caveat: this does not mean that friendship has not been true.
- Productive and constructive.
- On the contrary.
- All it leaves are good fruits that have been sown.
- Planted and cultivated with great care.
Having old friends is beautiful, and some are almost like sisters, it’s this person who reads your gaze in front of a funny situation, who tunes in when the boring conversation starts, is the person who makes the connection to your past And how good a lasting friendship we’ve had since we were a kid, who remembers when you played on the street of fire , you stole the flag, the game of truth (yes, I come from this wonderful time), first kiss you died of shame, anyway, this friendship that knows everything about your life and you of yours.
If it lasts a lifetime it’s fine, how nice, but if it doesn’t last it’s because it’s like any relationship, it lasts where the interests were common and if you move on one side and the friendship changes on the other. The relationship may not last, but it is still what was lived in this moment of sharing, going out and all the beauty of having a good friend.
I have many friends, I have always enjoyed meeting new people, listening to the hearts of others, opening up to them, and that is why throughout my life I have created bonds and I have undone, how many people have gone through my life who have helped me bring here, how much learning I have collected from irreverent, simple, funny, messy, ignorant people , systematic, strange, affectionate, anyway, I am sure that what I am today are part of what I have learned in those friendships that have done me so well.
There are the great friends, perhaps those who touch the soul of people because they are of the same group in the same way, who are not imprisoned, but by affinity of souls, are linked to each other, know each other so well that they do not need to listen full-time, they can make different decisions, walk different paths, go years without meeting, and when the reunion occurs , it will always look like it was yesterday. This kind of affinity today is precious, very in an era of rapid elimination, a lasting friendship is a treasure that lies beneath the sea within a shipwreck. You have to deal with a relationship like this, so it always blooms, even if it’s not spring.
It is as Vinecius de Moraes said: “I would endure, not without pain, if all my loves died, but I would die if I lost all my friends. “Friendship is one of the best relationships we have in life. The relationship, the joy in the look, the embrace you caress, the bad words that show true affection, a bar table, a beer or a juice, it doesn’t matter, as long as it’s cold, a friend to share the moment, either with joy or sadness.
Yes, it’s worth having a friend who’s for life, a #migasualoka that makes your life sweeter, sweeter and makes sense of all your follies, a #migasualoka who holds your hair in this painful hangover, which shows for you all the qualities that the boy did not have the gift of achieving, calls on Friday night and says: today you will continue to leave the house, who buys the fight with you and for you, who gets angry, very angry with the one who made you cry, who wants your good and really wants to be by your side during all the years of your life.
True friendship exists at all times and for as long as it lasts, what actually becomes rare are lifelong friendships Fortunately for those who have it!
For all the #migasualoka of life, I wish you a peaceful love, flavored with bitten fruit, but more than that, I wish you a great friend that you can trust and that will be for life!