No, it’s not always easy. Letting someone go takes courage. Why let someone go is let go of a part of you, a part that may never come back?Worse, some people are so intimate that when they leave, aren’t you the same?
Not all friendships are eternal, some end. Even love doesn’t get rid of an expiration date. And make no mistake, there is nothing permanent, relationships are not eternal and you have to let them go.
- As it is very difficult to say goodbye.
- These farewells become great sources of suffering for us.
- Even the passage of time does not make us safe from farewell.
- Especially when we know that there is no turning back.
After a while, few friends continue to hold the same position of trust in our hearts, and only half of the friends we have today will stay with us after seven years, in fact, it is normal for this to happen. Relationships can calm down if there are no shared feelings, conflict that causes an announced and inevitable separation, or simply because each life takes a different course.
When this happens, the hardest thing is not to leave people, but to let them take a part of you that has always accompanied them, this is the hardest thing to face, even at times when the relationship seems to cause more harm and suffering than joy. and enthusiasm for life.
The important thing is to let go at the right time, when you know that there is no guarantee of improvement and that going like this would not be good for anyone, this is your time to make things better.
Don’t let your memories become wounds, that’s when everything collapses and what brings you back no longer exists. Then you stop walking together on the path of life. Letting go is the best self-esteem demonstration you can give.
There are friendships that shouldn’t even be called that, and that has an explanation, they say that friends are the family we choose, but even if it sounds strange, we have to settle for what we can stay with. time or information to find our ideal partner, so it makes sense that sometimes we make mistakes.
It can also happen that we put all our trust in ourselves and that we fully open ourselves to someone and be deceived, these transgressions can take us away from the person, and it is normal that no one wants someone toxic and unreliable in their life. Life.
In all cases the relationships are composed of phases, and the phases change constantly, for better or worse, if you accept the rules of the game you will advance, if you do not accept them you will be stuck. a lot of affection for a person, it may no longer exist, at least not in the same way you met them. Like you, others change and evolve; we’re not the same from year to year.
These are the signs that make you feel that something is outdated, you can ignore the expired yogurt in your refrigerator, you may even want to eat it for a few days, but at some point you’ll have to throw it away and buy it. a new bottle.
It’s nobody’s fault; friendships expire and that’s it, you have to know how to accept. Even if you sell your eyes, you’ll still feel that the taste of yogurt isn’t the same. If you ignore him and keep eating him, he’ll get sick. The price to pay is very high.
Memories are beautiful if they stay in the past, which is their place, and if we don’t live on them, they’re great as long as they don’t force us to keep customs we no longer want and make us live in constant and undesirable reciprocity.
In fact, relationships are transformed. We probably no longer have the same values, aspirations and projects that we had a few years ago, it’s normal that it hurts and it’s hard to get rid of something that’s part of you, but like you, your relationships change. For good or worse, it’s just a matter of accepting it or not.
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