Those who seem less fragile are generally more fragile. He who wears solid armor and smiles of admirable courage and courage often hides a heart of glass, which reflects and mourns a secret bitterness, deep chasms of deep sadness that he could not solve.
The secretly fragile person is also often incredibly responsible, sometimes a small act of gratitude or kindness fills her with happiness, however, the slightest mistake or disappointment she experiences causes the despair of these people. Are we talking about this? With which the fragile person finds himself so much in his daily life.
- We all know people who apparently carry all the burdens that life imposes on them.
- But let us not deceive ourselves: because they wear masks of the color of false bravery.
- And even wear armor of heroes of yesteryear.
- However.
- It is enough to put on a little of your armor to see that it is full of rust due to your inner suffering.
- By the tears shed in secret.
Every fragile person hides the sensibility of creatures that, though you knew, have a great need for esteem. Your skin is very thin and will react instantly to any changes. Any censorship or misinterpretation of a context will be perceived as a threat.
We invite you to delve into the complex question of human fragility with us.
First, let’s define what we mean by emotional fragility. Being fragile doesn’t mean being weak at all. It means, above all, seeing and understanding reality from a more intimate point of view, from the very heart, but this in turn implies a complex investment: that of emotional vulnerability.
To protect this delicate interior, people often arm themselves with different types of armor, there are those who show a strong and energetic personality, marking limits, are people who sometimes seem to be at war with the world, however, and we must take this into account, those who are always alert end up exhausted by psychological and emotional stress.
Because those who understand life as continuous self-defense will only accumulate suffering.
The fragile heart that has been seriously wounded begins to suspect, gradually developing a passable personality that interprets any act as an offense, a conversation becomes a battle. A phrase uttered in a certain tone feels like a complaint. As Leonardo da Vinci said, “where there is more sensitivity, there is more martyrdom. “
However, we can all channel this fragility creatively, healthily and powerfully to limit these sufferings.
It’s always been like this and that’s how you’ve tried to survive so far. When you were a kid, you created a fantastic world that suited you because you didn’t like what you saw. As a teenager, you came to the conclusion that no one would understand you and that you were afraid. In adulthood, you feel that no one loves you the way you deserve, and fear has also added anger.
Have you added onion peels? Inside you, disconnecting completely from the only force capable of giving you what you need: your self-esteem. Understand that life is not a battlefield for which you must defend yourself by fighting at all times. Growing up, maturing, and advancing means joining to stop seeing enemies where there aren’t.
People reject fragility almost instinctively. For us to be more sensitive it means a threat and, therefore, we choose to protect ourselves, however, the real problem comes after a bad experience, in addition to the fear of being hurt again, anger and even the permanent search for the culprits are added.
Finally, remember that being sensitive is a great virtue, but being hypersensitive is a flaw, even if you are a little more fragile and emotional than the rest of the people, do not curse them, because to be fragile is not to be weak, is to have a more intense internal perception of what surrounds you, take care of your self-esteem and take advantage of this skill.