What’s stopping you from getting taller and starting to fly, a relationship that doesn’t work, a job you don’t like, a friend who despises you? imagines you’re traveling and you start letting go of everything that slows you down. you only have one life to steal.
If someone cuts off your wings and won’t let you live life the way you want, what are you waiting for to let that person go?If you have a job that doesn’t satisfy you, even if it’s not easy, why don’t you look for a job you fall in love with, you’re the master of your life, believe it and model it, you’re the one who rules it.
“Only those who find it every day get freedom. “
? Goethe-
The idea of selfishness is generally negative because it is associated with someone who is not a good person, someone who acts only out of self-interest and thinks only of himself, without caring about others. But there are three types of selfishness:
He is the person who can only speak for himself, who does not let the other person speak, who does something only if it is in his own interest. The person who practices self-centered selfishness has eyes only for himself and, every time he speaks, he refers to himself.
Is it a healthy selfishness that arises when we feel the need to say no to others?It becomes a natural thing because it connects us to our essence, to what we really want, not to what others want for us.
This happens when we reach the ability to put our interest at the service of the common good of society, that is, we do good to the world and that makes us feel good, we do something that we love and benefit others. It’s not about charity or obligations. We’re just doing something good because we’re happy.
So think of yourself, what you want, what you like, look for people who share your concerns and you will feel the success of knowing those who understand and seek the same thing that will bring you a lot of satisfaction.
Learn to say, right? When necessary. Sometimes we don’t dare to say ‘no’ when asked for something and we find ourselves doing things we don’t want or even living a life we don’t want. Be happy to do the things that make you happy, and if you have to say no, say so. Get rid of everything that limits your dreams.
“Nothing and no one can make you happy, can you just make yourself happy?
? Gerald Schmedling
Sometimes we keep memories that hurt us and prevent us from seeing and enjoying the here and now. Tell me, enough? Start forgiving so you can move on and you’ll feel lighter, your background of negative emotions will weigh much less.
If you have a partner by your side who constantly evaluates you, who doubts your dreams, who imposes what you consider best for you, think about this relationship with total sincerity, think about what brings you and decides. Sometimes it’s better, to escape in time, even if it’s painful, than to have a life full of dissatisfaction.
Sometimes a family member or friend, even with the best intentions, limits us in what we want to do, judges us and condemns us, in these cases it may be better to take a step back, take a step back, have our space. and our time to decide, so that the decisions are ours. We can make a thousand mistakes, but it doesn’t matter, because those will be our mistakes and our way of learning.
And, of course, when you get rid of everything that prevents you from gaining height, spread your wings, smile and start flying towards your dreams, feel the wind of your desires hitting your hair, feel the heat of the sun on your face, feel more and more your feet moving away from the earth to achieve what you have always wanted.
“Remember that the secret of happiness is in freedom, and the secret of freedom, in courage. “
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