“The most beautiful people I have ever met are those who have experienced defeat, suffering, struggle, loss and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, sensitivity, and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, humility, and deep love discomfort. Pretty people don’t come out of nowhere. ?
Elisabeth Kobler- Ross
- We have all lived moments when we feel that we carry life on our shoulders.
- With a weight that is hard to bear.
In addition, of course, we were also able to observe this same phenomenon in other people, we noticed in their faces, in their gestures, in their hands, in their pride, in a halo of suffering emanating from their souls.
At that moment, we also saw how many people fell and let the therself be defeated. and how others, on the other hand, have found something to sustain.
There are people who find a foot inside and, triumphantly, come back to light with the illuminated smile of an experienced player, a player who knows how to save the best card to definitely bring luck to his side. before everyone considers you a loser, they win.
These people are not particularly strong, neither those who keep their feelings, nor those who hide pain, are people who have one or more sincere reasons to love life.
These people’s motivations respond only to the reasons or desires they expose in the final judgment, with the purity of those who know how to sum up life in a nut words, reasons that drive them to fight for life sincerely while suspended in the abyss and their fingers hurt.
These people whisper a cry of hope that tears apart their temptation, a hidden demon who cries out for abandonment and deceptive peace to allow defeat.
At times like these, these people feel like you and me: they think the easiest way is to close their eyes and get carried away. And then they also want to lose hope that, in the end, there will be a water mattress to take refuge in until their forces return.
Finding this foundation is a difficult task for many. Imagine a single mother who has two children, has just lost her job and can’t find a job.
Certainly, at first, he will look for work with enthusiasm; an illusion that has not yet been eroded over time, however, if you do not find it, this illusion will end and ask: why continue to fight me every day if I return to bed with the same result that I already had when I got up?
Probably, then, your children will appear in your mind, this love will appear that goes beyond mental limits, if it did not exist, it could have succumbed. You will feel that there is no other way, no other way, and that you will never be able to surrender, because the most precious beings in the world depend on it.
In addition, it is interesting to note that in these situations, there is a strange way of thinking called “player error”. What is this false belief?
The person acting under the effects of such reasoning thinks, as a card player does, that having already experienced many unlucky situations in a row increases the likelihood of getting lucky with him on the next shot. It is precisely fallo. de the odds that holds hope and sustains the struggle.
On other occasions, we have built this point of support through sacrifices, this happens at times when we think of everything we invest to get to this point, and everything we build becomes precisely the reason that does not allow us to abandon it.
In these cases, we assume that it has been a long time since we made the decision to have no choice, regardless of the gravity of things and the danger of the road.
In this sense, we believe that we have already assessed the risk of the path we have chosen and that is when we decided to accept it as a destination, whether it is our greatest victory or the most deastrous failure.
One way or another, these invisible and sincere supports are the ones that dominate the hearts attacked by the cold.