We must love in such a way that the person we love feels free, but wants to stay. Love is not a ship that needs to be anchored. We must leave love adrift, but without letting go of the rudder. Of course it’s not, easy, no one said it would be, but the reward is worth it.
We must get rid of this idea of consensual slavery that subjects us to short and long distances. Sometimes a relationship is based on love, but its members can gather reasons to leave.
- Therefore.
- Even if it is not easy.
- Building a rewarding relationship requires everyone to have time to weave their wings.
- Wash them.
- Heal them.
- Caress them and fly.
- In other words.
- A relationship where there is no coertion.
- Only freedom.
Sometimes our wings become lazy and accommodate the custom of a conjugal life, we move to the tranquility of the routine and relax to the point that everything becomes monotonous, and monotony leads to boredom, boredom and laziness, which makes us lose the habit and makes us forget how to take off.
However, in other circumstances, the wings are injured and therefore the flight hurts, they are likely to have been wounded by being tied up or who, in their desperate turmoil, fought our indifference, being defeated for a long time.
There may be a thousand excuses, but there is no reason not to allow you to fly, in this sense a couple must help themselves, encourage themselves to improve life, climb to get another pen so that they can support themselves. a high view of the world.
Helping our tree take root does not mean having to control everything or thinking that the established will prevail forever, free and healthy relationships are dynamic and changing, as are people.
Rooting means feeding and nurturing our feelings, breathing them and letting them breathe, in this sense the confidence and balance that the work of our wings gives us and let them complement the roots.
In other words, if we want a strong and solid relationship, we must let our wings fly in search of food that keeps us strong and healthy, otherwise our roots will have nowhere to find the nutrients they need to live, causing love to perish. .
To balance our relationships, we need to gather reasons to stay, but beware, picking up is not the same as crowding in an attic, collecting motives means taking care of every moment that helps keep love, smile and gesture alive.
The metaphor of the tree helps us to understand the importance of taking care of the small details and remember that when we are stuck we lose perspective and food, that is, in the same way that to create love we must erase the fantasy, maintain it, we must be able to sustain our decisions and our permanence.
We must let love be explained and let our seeds grow freely, that our wings fly, and offer our help to others to do so, let us not be slaves, because love is not that.
In short, that the roots we have are freedom and that our wings are alive, that we radiate dreams and that we breathe confidence, because at the end of the day, it is the only way we have to make sense of how we feel.