Grey people discourage other people’s dreams; they judge, humiliate, lie, they want to make you feel complex about who you are. They walk through life always with the intention of subtracting, not adding. They say phrases that hurt without worrying in the least about what you can feel.
Grey people turn off the lights and one of them could be yours. The reasons? They’re not clear. There are people who, instead of turning their pain into healing for themselves, choose to discourage others, so that their world is more in tune with who they are, you don’t see their brightness or darkness, you just notice the harmful effect they leave you.
- There are many ways to cancel someone else: devalue everything you do.
- Ridicule your dreams.
- Advise you forever?Throw in the towel? And.
- In this way.
- Make room for the emotional corpses that match your bad energy.
The world is full of noble and wonderful people who vibrate with life even if they have suffered falls, however, unfortunately, an enlightened person can meet many gray people in their path and eventually vanish.
Perhaps when they disappear they will become grudges that will repeat the behaviors that did them, one day, falling completely, it is a stream of negativity that we must avoid reaching.
How are people with the light? Many of us would say that it is these people who “make us smile,” moderate but committed to the problems around them. Without wanting prominence, but they end up being the most intimate corners of many souls who come to them for their lives. empathy and character Bright people transmit peace.
The most important thing is that light people don’t carry on their back a lot of wounds, judgments, hurtful or humiliating comments, bright people have dreams, adapt to their environment without letting social conventions override them and, above all: they don’t want to end their lives with dreams without realizing it, but with experiences to remember.
If they realize that someone else is also fighting for it, that they are not competing or that they are jealous, they simply choose them as travel companions. Bright people encourage and support others because they rejoice in their joys.
“Do I consider what overcomes your desires more courageous than what defeats your enemies, for the most difficult victory is the victory of oneself?
-Aristotle-
To prevent your light from going out when difficulties arise, or when someone tries to turn it off at some point in your life, you can implement some strategies that will protect you:
“Charm is what you have, whenever you believe.
? Simone de Beauvoir-
Fortunately, in this life, we are not only who we believe to be, personality is built throughout life and it is true that some experiences change, but only as a change that transforms, not as something immutable and fixed.
If you’ve lost your charm for everything and some people you’ve met have hurt you more than you thought, it’s your right to feel sad for a while, but if you lose your charm and abandon your dreams, it will be hard for you to find meaning in their existence.
It would be great to try again. Don’t let them take their dreams, their little ways of savoring life their own way. Don’t give gray people the desire to lose their sense of existence. They themselves have already ruined yours and it would be good if you asked yourself this question: Do you want to be one of them?