Guilt never comes alone and can happen for a number of reasons in our lives, sometimes it tortures us for what we have done, but it has not worked, in others it haunts us for not having the courage to do or say something that is now eating us inside. It is in this second case that guilt appears in our lives accompanied by his two great friends: doubt and insecurity.
Never stop doing anything out of fear. It’s better to repent than to blame yourself for what might have been.
- That’s when doubt takes the lead in our decisions and insecurity decides that it’s better to do nothing for fear of losing what we have.
- When guilt settles in our lives.
- This saddens and paralyzes us.
- Living in our imagination what might have happened.
- Instead.
- To accept the reality of our immobility.
Fear happens, but what we stop living out of fear doesn’t come back
Doubt looks at us day by day and reminds us, strategically, of the situations in which we did something wrong, those situations in which we inadvertently hurt someone or in which we played the role of ridicule, in short, the doubt is responsible for multiplying our discomfort until it makes us doubt all that we are or have done.
But that’s not all. When our discomfort increases, doubt calls to his army, the one who gathers our fears and sends them, that is when the images of all evil that can happen obscure our minds and prevent us from deciding what we really want.
Not only do we want to be happy, to seek our well-being, but we also want to live without suffering, and to take advantage of this, doubt strikes us again, that’s how we fall back into fear and guilt, that’s right. how insecurity combines with doubt and slows us down to try to alleviate this discomfort that we feel and that we know is part of life, even if we want to avoid it.
“Is it possible to escape everything but what is lost?-Marwan-
Then insecurity manifests itself in all its coldness, making us doubt ourselves and our actions, which keeps us in immobility, afraid to fail again if we do something else or try again.
With insecurity we lose balance, trust in ourselves, lose emotional balance and cling to a place hostile to ourselves, that place is where our own image dissolves into a set of fears that do not reflect who we are, but what we fear to be.
Thus, we take root in the possibilities of a fateful future, but it is not real, even if we behave as if it were. This is how we show that our self-confidence can take us a long way, but lacking it leads to continuous negative self-assessment, focused on what we can do.
So when guilt appears in your life accompanied by doubt and insecurity, focusing on the present, on the real, will help you overcome it, in addition, it will make you give the best version of yourself, your potential, because limits cease. be mental and become real.